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toxic feminity 

It's a set of beliefs held by unscrupulous women that are used to oppress men & womens opinion in order to control the narrative of a debate.

1. a women's opinion: feelings & loud emotion outweigh fact for merely being abstinence and unyielding to examination.

2. victim : all women are victims even if they aren't, if a women has had a bad day they all have, they share everyone's mistakes no matter who's fault

3. sexually harassed: since a woman's natural curves are idealized by media any unwanted attention is harassment, it is upto men to know or be accused of harassment without proof or cause.

4.Hypergammy: women are not bound by Morals and should not be penalized,its okay to use a person for gain and that they should move onto the next man when they have taken all they can

5. They deserve more: women should be given status and wealth for being a women, instead of earning it and showing competence in the area of expertise

6. Reverse sexism: the act of being nonsexist by blaming the other sex for thier failings instead of looking inward and growing, instead of hating the other sex they claim oppression

7. False patronage: using others to bolster thier own prominence even if they consider them a lower class, as long as they can use them and the ones being used don't defy their opinions or popularity. Racism is ok if no one knows about it.

8. Expectations: putting expectations on others that they do not put on their selves, they deserve more and all others deserve less
Her opinion went against all facts but was cheered on for its pure uncaring of others and it's false righteous tone, the use of toxic feminity was on display for applause of the unknowing crowd
toxic feminity by meritfirst January 20, 2019

Toxic feminity 

While toxic masculinity is direct, aggressive and loud, toxic femininity is more indirect, passive and quiet.

Toxic feminity is when a female passively, indirectly uses her sexuality, or excessive empathy, or woman card, or manipulative tricks to gain power/social status/money/attention or just to lead people to do something for her.

These will be done in a very passive, indirect, silent manner which makes it difficult to prove when confronted.
Examples:
1. Sexuality: (a) Indirect sexual teasing via texts or social media or touching others in a sensual manner. And when you say don't do it, their usual reply is: "I didn't intend that", "Why do you think like that", "felt something?" etc.
2. Excessive Empathy: (a) Crying furiously until you do something. (b) Faking emotions to get something.
3. Woman Card: (a) Blaming patriarchy for her incompetence.
4. Misc.: (a) Belittling others or shaming them out of jealousy. (b) Body shaming other females. (c) Constantly trying to one-up others even in casual sittings. (d) Gossip, smear campaigns.

It is done in a way that confronting, calling out, proving it becomes difficult and if you are a male then puts you in a bad light.

How to deal with them:
1. Avoid at all cost. If you have already got in deep then "passively" cut ties. By ignoring, keeping replies short and never asking them for something or initiating conversation.
2. They want you to fight back. So dont. Hold your dignity and move on, they hate it a lot.
You are such a gold digger girl! Keep your toxic feminity with yourself.
Toxic feminity by netflexes May 6, 2020

Toxic femininity

A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated femininity

Holding or embracing traditional feminine attributes like empathy, passivity, patience and tenderness in order to prioritise caring for others to the detriment of their own health while minimising their own struggles.
She always puts her husbands feelings first and it’s really taking a toll on her mental health, I told her she could tell him he also has to change his attitude to save their relationship but she called me a cold woman for even suggesting that. Toxic femininity at its finest
Toxic femininity by internet Emiko December 21, 2020

Toxic femininity

Willful ignorance, a heavy sense of entitlement with a refusal to take responsibility for one's own actions, encouraged by others with the same condition and reality shows. See: narcissism.
"We always got toxic femininity from the customers coming out of the yoga studio a few doors down." (true story)
Toxic femininity by arf79 July 5, 2022

Toxic Femininity

A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated feminine traits like being sensitive, emotional, having a perfect appearance, and so forth.

One can be feminine without being toxic.

Some beliefs of toxic femininity are:

- Putting your hands on, abusing, and physically assaulting men and then using your "woman card" to get out of being hit back or getting in trouble.

- Body shaming (e.g. who's butt is bigger, who's ugly, who's fat, who's too skinny, etc.).

- Giving people sex and affection in return for money ("Gold Digger").

- Prioritizing your appearance above everything else in your life.

- Jealousy towards other women
Toxic Femininity used in a sentence:

Woman: I don't need your toxic femininity to tell me how to look and that I need a man.

Toxic Femininity used in a scenario:

A woman hits a man for sitting with his legs spread, the man hits back.
Woman: Hey! You can't hit a woman!
Man: You hit me first, it was self defense.
Woman and other people: Coward!
Toxic Femininity by jimble.x January 24, 2019

Toxic Femininity

Toxic behavior that is more feminine in nature. Differentiates from toxic masculinity in which toxic femininity is more passive and behind the scenes. While toxic masculinity tends to be upfront toxic femininity tends to be behind your back. Women will claim they support each other but then talk shit behind each others back. Other toxic traits displayed in women are passive aggression, constant negativity, self-centeredness, toxic positivity, destructive criticism, believing men are incapable of feeling empathy, and of course weaponized crocodile tears. Above all they will still continue to consider themselves good people and blame men for all their problems and completely ignore all the women that have caused them harm because it does not fit their cognitive bias. Although there is not much research into this topic it is believed that women with anti-social personality disorder, bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder, and oppressed masochist personality are more likely to exhibit these toxic traits.
Person A: "Want to see Mean Girls?"

Person B: Don't you mean toxic femininity the movie?
Toxic Femininity by MorbidCuteness September 26, 2023