Willful ignorance, a heavy sense of entitlement with a refusal to take responsibility for one's own actions, encouraged by others with the same condition and reality shows. See: narcissism.
"We always got toxic femininity from the customers coming out of the yoga studio a few doors down." (true story)
by arf79 July 5, 2022
A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated femininity

Holding or embracing traditional feminine attributes like empathy, passivity, patience and tenderness in order to prioritise caring for others to the detriment of their own health while minimising their own struggles.
She always puts her husbands feelings first and it’s really taking a toll on her mental health, I told her she could tell him he also has to change his attitude to save their relationship but she called me a cold woman for even suggesting that. Toxic femininity at its finest
by internet Emiko December 21, 2020
A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated feminine traits like being sensitive, emotional, having a perfect appearance, and so forth.

One can be feminine without being toxic.

Some beliefs of toxic femininity are:

- Putting your hands on, abusing, and physically assaulting men and then using your "woman card" to get out of being hit back or getting in trouble.

- Body shaming (e.g. who's butt is bigger, who's ugly, who's fat, who's too skinny, etc.).

- Giving people sex and affection in return for money ("Gold Digger").

- Prioritizing your appearance above everything else in your life.

- Jealousy towards other women
Toxic Femininity used in a sentence:

Woman: I don't need your toxic femininity to tell me how to look and that I need a man.

Toxic Femininity used in a scenario:

A woman hits a man for sitting with his legs spread, the man hits back.
Woman: Hey! You can't hit a woman!
Man: You hit me first, it was self defense.
Woman and other people: Coward!
by jimble.x January 25, 2019
Just like "toxic masculinity" - a term that means: something, that some women don't like about what is considered either natural or socially normal for a man;
"toxic femininity" is the same with the roles switched: something that some men don't like about what is considered either natural or socially normal for a woman.

Another definition: A non-conformist term meaning denial of sex differences or roles, calling toxic the sex-based social expectations or regimentations, biological differences.

Since "toxic masculinity" is such a populist among misandrists term, it's been dragged into anything and everything, to the point that a lot of what has been written about "toxic masculinity" is in fact "toxic femininity".
Either way both terms are made up, vague, effectively broad stroke slurs.
All that she's been doing for the past 10 years with her money was partying/socializing, monkey branching and traveling, while also relying heavily on her parents, which is considered normal for women, but shameful - when it's men; whereas I've saved up about the same amount, that she's squandered and I've used it as down payment for my first real estate, now that we're together, somehow she's considered to own half of it, just because I haven't wasted my money? expects me to pay the bills, her expenses, for restaurants. She has a list of things for me, that I am supposed to tick/be and be useful at, whereas she can be whatever - useless for me, have freedom at my expense, ignore my needs, wants, beliefs? She has a victim mentality, egotistic beliefs, low empathy, always just teasing, without anything real behind it, like a thot. Now I've left her, but she's "revenge-cheating" and has intentionally scratched my car, while her toxic femfriends were cheering her up, painting it and throwing slurs at me. She's manipulating submissive men's biased empathy to attack me, she's using any and all private information she's had been trusted with while being with me as "collected database" against me - for slander, doxing - to destroy my further life. I don't need your toxic femininity in my life woman.
by veinsofgold May 5, 2022
The idea of toxic femininity refers to extreme/toxic personality traits that many women develop based on how females as a whole are treated/taught how to act by society. These personality traits usually revolve around a heavy sense of entitlement and failure to take responsibility for one's own actions. Many societal double standards exist in favor of women(don't argue with a woman, don't hit a woman back, the man should always be the one to pay, etc) which further influences this type of behavior. The media mainly focuses on the concept of toxic masculinity but refuses to acknowledge the existence of toxic femininity.
Examples of toxic femininity include:

1. Women who bring nothing to the table yet expect a man to fully support all of their needs.

2. Women who overly sexualize themselves while passing it off as empowerment/expressing themselves(Megan Thee Stallion, City Girls, Saweetie, and pretty much every other modern female rapper promotes a load of toxic femininity in their songs and music videos)
3. Women who claim to want "equality" but refuse to take charge when put in a position to do so
4. Women who frequently bash the physical appearance of other women
5. Women who blame men for all of their problems
6. Women who act weak, helpless, or squeamish (like a damsel in distress) to get what their way
7. Women who only seek men for financial support
8. Women who want to normalize the emasculation of males
9. Women say "men are trash"
10. Women who refuse to acknowledge societal double standards
by TheUncommonOne July 20, 2020
Just like "toxic masculinity" - a term that means: something, that some women don't like about what is considered either natural or socially normal for a man;
"toxic femininity" is the same with the roles switched: something that some men don't like about what is considered either natural or socially normal for a woman.

Another definition: A non-conformist term meaning denial of sex differences or roles, calling toxic the sex-based social expectations or regimentations, biological differences.

Since "toxic masculinity" is such a populist among misandrists term, it's been dragged into anything and everything, to the point that a lot of what has been written about "toxic masculinity" is in fact "toxic femininity".
Either way both terms are made up, vague, effectively broad stroke slurs.
All that she's been doing for the past 10 years with her money was partying/socializing, monkey branching and traveling, while also relying heavily on her parents, which is considered normal for women, but shameful for men; whereas I've saved up about the same amount, that she's squandered and I've used it as a down payment for my first real estate. Meeting her and having her live with me for a while, somehow considered to let her own half of it, just because I haven't wasted my money? She expected me to pay the bills, her expenses, for restaurants and other activities. She has a list of things for me, that I am supposed to tick/be and be useful at, whereas she can be whatever - useless for me, have freedom at my expense, ignore my needs, wants, beliefs? She has a victim mentality, egotistic and superficial beliefs, expectations of special treatment, low empathy, always just teasing like a thot, without anything real behind it. Now that I've left her, she's "revenge-cheating", she has intentionally scratched my car, while her toxic femfriends were cheering her up, painting it and throwing slurs at me. She's manipulating simps and white knights to attack me, she's using any and all private information she's had been trusted with - while being with me - as "collected database" against me to destroy my further life - with doxing, slander, including stretching it and adding made up things.
I don't need your toxic femininity in my life woman.
by veinsofgold May 29, 2022
The weaponization of female sexuality and or identity as a means to gain social power or status.
Toxic Femininity— She wore high heels, a short skirt and a plunging neckline to work in an obvious power grabbing display of Toxic Femininity
by Herodotus2 February 19, 2019