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To spread one’s hand or fingers across another person in a deliberate, grounding, or reassuring manner, often conveying affection, comfort, protection, or emotional presence through touch. A blend of “splay” and “placate.”
“As she buried her face in his shoulder, he splaycated a hand across her back, silently reminding her that she wasn’t alone.“
Splaycate by RomcomLover_ 123 June 15, 2026
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Someone you love, possibly your soulmate.
I swear she is my slaymate, I’m going to marry that girl.
Slaymate by Dark hippie January 17, 2019
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Slaycation

Any trip where you are serving LEWKS honey. Nails, done, hair done, everything did. Outfit on point too. You did not come to play, basically you are dressed to the nines.
"Every outfit Beyonce wore for Paris fashion week was so fire, even the bikinis! " Yea girl, she had the slaycation of the year, who's the designer?
Slaycation by wsmg August 11, 2022

slaydate 

A coordinated time and place where two people plan to slay each other. A "slaydate" typically takes place in the back seat of a vehicle in an desolate area.
Tony wants to meet us at the bar, but he's got a slaydate set up with that hot waitress with big hammers. I think he's meeting her behind that old folks home!
slaydate by mister delicious January 1, 2008

Slaycation

A vacation for the sole purpose of having sex. This sex can be planned with someone in advance or just with a random person you meet, but the main reason you are taking this vacation is for sex. This is different from a laycation, which is a sex getaway for two (or more if you're into that). A slaycation is strictly solo. You don't bring a partner.
I'm headed to California to meet up with that one guy.

Oh yeah girl, you need a good slaycation.

slaycation

a vacation but its slay.

doesnt always have to be about a literal vacation
"How was your spring break?"

"It was so slay. I was on a slaycation in Miami."
slaycation by qubbing April 26, 2022

slaycation

the trip that one takes to relax and unwind after committing a murder, serious manslaughter, or slaying. usually over 50 miles from scene of crime.
Example 1: When Tony Soprano asphyxiated Christopher Multisanti in season 6 of 'The Sopranos,' he took a slaycation to Vegas after the funeral as the Feds investigated the death and the family mourned.

Example 2: Notorious BIG raps about "laying up in Miami with Tamika and Tammy" after he leaves gangsters "in bloodshed" in revenge for their shooting three of his men in the song "You're Nobody Til Somebody Kills You."

"Incidents like this I take trips / Lay up in Miami with Tamika and Tammy / Some Creole C-O bitches I met on tour / Push a peach Legend Coupe, gold teeth galore / Told me meet em in the future later, they'll take me shopping

buy me lavender and fuschia Gators..."

(Shopping is a common activity in slaycations)