downlowing

Based on the express "keeping it on the down low," the term "downlowing" refers to a casual, and at the same time, secret, homosexual relationship, typically between black or latino men in small social gatherings - such as card games. Many of the men who participate in "downlowing" do not consider themselves gay, and many even have families.

Felix invited me to play dominoes with him and the boys this weekend, but I was told there's a lot of downlowing going on at those games, so I declined.

by Andrew August 20, 2004

Downlow

When a black man or woman is in a relationship with a person of the opposite sex,but cheating on them with a person of the same sex.

A stupid slang word created by the black community.

Black people complain about the downlow when their homophobia is what created it.

by cuteguy January 18, 2011

Downlow

When a group of black men say they're going to play poker or Watch sports, they really go to A secret location to have sex with eachother.

LaMarcus: Yo dawg, go to My pad tonight to watch MNF, bring your homies.
DeShawn: Ya, we keep it downlow.

by Shane Skeet February 09, 2008

downlow

Living on the downlow

Black community slang for black men secrect homosexual activity

Leroy's wife found out he was living on the downlow when she tested positive for AIDS

by ch0ng0 February 15, 2005

downlow

Straight black males having gay sex. (see "Law and Order SVU")

Tom and Frank were on the downlow, but they when home to their wives.

by geo8x6 June 19, 2004

downlow

When black queers try to keep their faggotry a secret amongst each other.

Bi sexual? Let's clear this up now! No such thing! You either suck dick or you do not suck dick there is no inbetween. What do these guys get up in the morning and flip a coin? Tails; hair pie, heads; balls around the chin!
-Andrew Dice Clay

by Dice September 03, 2004

downlow

A place where gay guys go to have sex. milkshake

I went to the downlow yesterday.

by Vanilla May 27, 2004