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T'la is someone with a generous soul, but always keeps a dollar in her pocket. She keeps to herself, but is very social and outgoing. She's fearless and determined to get any and everything she deserves, she's unusually kind so people will try to take advantage of her, but she's sharp as a tac so she'll notice, but she can be naive at times. Her beauty is the definition of, "A rose that grew from the concrete" because she goes unnoticed, not because she's not as pretty as others, she's just a laid-back individual that likes not to be seen. A definite win for any man.
"She's so T'la is not even fair"
T'la by JohnnyRegular November 23, 2021
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A Vulcan word meaning "friend, brother, and/or lover". First used in the novelisation of Star Trek: The Motion Picture, the word was created by Gene Roddenberry to describe the relationship between Captain Kirk and Spock.

An excerpt from the novel says "Editor’s note: The human concept of friend is most nearly duplicated in Vulcan thought by the term t’hy’la, which can also mean brother and lover."

T'hy'la is popularly used in Kirk/Spock slash stories, where "soul-mate" and "life-long companion" are often accepted within fanon as additional definitions of T'hy'la.
Jim! Good-bye my . . . my t'hy'la. This is the last time I will permit myself to think of you or even your name again.
-- Spock's thoughts before almost undergoing Kolinahr, a Vulcan ritual to purge all emotion. (Star Trek: The Motion Picture novel, page 14-15.)

There was much to be put out of his mind. Why was it difficult to forget Chekov’s astonished delight which greeted him at the command airlock when he boarded? And on the bridge—Kirk! The mere name made Spock groan inwardly as he remembered what it had cost him to turn away from that welcome. T'hy'la!
-- (Star Trek: The Motion Picture novel, page 109.)
T'hy'la by Galileo Seven March 5, 2010
Term from Star Trek. A word in the Vulcan vocabulary used to describe Kirk and Spock's relationship as friends and "brothers". Later defined as having the triple meaning of friends/brothers/lovers.
Creator Gene Roddenberry uses t'hy'la as the Vulcan equivalent of "friend".
t'hy'la by JadeRzeznic May 11, 2009

You Won't Last Five Minutes Playing This Game 

A typical pornhub ad that usually advertises a sex game. If you're horny enough to click on it, be prepared to insert your address, social security number, and credit card information. If you're a fan of watching a caveman fuck a dinosaur or watching Shrek porn, it is highly recommended that you jerk off to that ad.
Pornhub Ad: You Won't Last five Minutes Playing This Game ...
Me: TEST ME YOU FOOL

not funny didn't laugh 

Not funny, didn't laugh. Used when you see or hear an unfunny or cringe meme/joke.
Gluten: Why did the chicken cross the road?
Oatmeal: why?
Gluten: To get to the other side!
Oatmeal: Not funny didn't laugh
Originating from the South: it’s your mother, mother figure. The term is used to show respect to the dominant woman figure in a young man’s life.
“Hey E can you come through?” “Lemme holla at my T Lady real quick to see if it’s Gucci.
T Lady by T lady35 August 9, 2018
The T-Lave’s of the world are very unique. They are nice to talk to and they’re great. They always try they’re hardest and always give 110%. T-Lave is some man. He’s pretty fit as well ngl. Anybody who knows a T-Lave should talk to him (girls especially) and anybody who has one in their life are very lucky.
Girl: I got a new bestie called T-Lave
Girl 2 : OMG you’re so lucky

Girl 3 : I’m so jealous, can I have him
T-Lave by NobodyKnowsMe123 October 28, 2019
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