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degrading kink 

if a girl likes it when you call her something “rude” during sexual activity, she could be a degradee. common used phrases that girls enjoy include:
slut, my slut
whore, my whore
needy slut
common phrases they enjoy:
watch your mouth, slut.
you like this don’t you? needy whore.
you want me to keep going? such a slut for me, aren’t you?

this will drive your girl wild, for some weird reason. if shes giving hints she likes it, try it. It’s usually because she enjoys you controlling her. Choking pinning slapping and punishing or tying up can be a common part of this as well. I bet she will cum 10 times harder for you, too.
“she liked it when I called her my slut.”
“Sounds like she has a degrading kink.”
degrading kink by Yeetyotethots December 15, 2019

degrading kink 

A kink where people usually get aroused by being humiliated during sexual activity. Praise can also be added in.

Choking, spitting, slapping, and hair pulling usually are included.

Words like:
- slut
- whore

- bitch

are used
Dom: Does my pretty cumslut, feel good?
Sub: Yes love.
Dom: That's a good girl.
-
Dom: Who's my little whore.
Sub: I am a little whore.
Dom: Yes you are baby.

Dom: Yo bro, my girl has a serious degrading kink
Friend: Manee she a keeper
degrading kink by letmelookawaygirl February 20, 2022

degrading sandwich 

When two girls are grinding together and you and your wing man approach them from behind and proceed to grind with them pushing them closer and closer together between the two of you to form a sandwich like position. The move culminates with a large high five over the girls heads to create degradation towards these women. It is sick.
Yooo i was at the club last night and i saw these guys pull a degrading sandwich. I nearly shat my pants laughing.
degrading sandwich by Davor jumbotron February 18, 2008

demanding 

to request something in a forceful urgent manner
The lady was very demanding with the people on the phone.
demanding by Gerard Irick January 11, 2010

Despanding 

According to Pep, the opposite of expanding.
When Mel's heater turns off, Pep describes the loud noise as something in there despanding.

Mel: "Pep, what is that noise?"
Pep: "I think it expands when it is on and now it is despanding."
Despanding by trouble72 April 16, 2009

Demanding damsel in distress 

The attractive woman at work who plays the coquette and victim when it suits her but also demands respect and advancement. Coworkers either hate her or swoon over her. No one is neutral in their opinions of her.
"Can you believe that Stacey charged her supervisor with harassment? He just asked her to do her job."

"Yeah and now she got a promotion on top of it!"

"She's a demanding damsel in distress."
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
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The number of years you are still sexually active
While our lifespan is the number of years we will live, our healthspan is the number of healthy years we will have and our sexspan is is the number of years we will continue to be healthy enough to continue having an active sex life.
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You didn't get any napkins with your takeout pork fried rice? Womp womp.
womp by 175623226 November 3, 2011
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Wife’s boyfriend: You have 5 more minutes
Me: Poggers!
Poggers by Just_Charles April 14, 2020
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
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