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Finisher (Reverse Psychology) 

When a girl uses reverse psychology during sex to finish you off (make you reach orgasm) while she's riding you, stroking you, etc.

If you say "I'm gonna cum!" she may respond with a verbal "finisher" that includes reverse psychology
- "Not yet!"
- "No you're not!"
- "No! Don't cum yet!"
- "No! You're not allowed to cum!"
- "No! Just wait a little longer!"
- "No! Try to last a little bit longer!"
- "No! Wait until I tell you to cum!"
- "No! I didn't say you could!"
- “No! I don’t want you to cum!”
- “No! I won’t let you!”
- "No! I can't let you!"
- "You're cumming?! No, wait!"
- "Nooo! Nooo! Nooo!"
- “No you won’t!”
- “Oh no you don’t!”
- “Oh no! Oh no!”
- “Nooooooo!”
- “Wait! Wait!”
- “Already?!”
- “So soon?!”
- "Wait, you can't cum yet!"
- "You better not cum!"
- "You better hold it in!"
- "Only if I let you!”
- “Just try to hold it in, babe! Please! For me!”
- "You'll cum only if / when I say you can cum!"
- "I'm gonna punish you if you cum!"
- "You'll be sorry if you cum!"
- “I’ll never let you cum! Never!”
- “Not until I cum first!”
- “If you cum first, you lose!”
- “If you cum, I’ll leave you tied up here!”
- “If you cum, I’ll never untie you!“

Finisher (Reverse Psychology)

Steel Finisher 

To stab a woman during orgasm.
Will: You know Jennifer?

Nick: Yeah, why?

Will: I gave her a steel finisher last night.
Steel Finisher by erikoth May 21, 2009

Strong Finisher 

Someone or something who is a champion of volleyball and all things Volleyball related.
Student 1: "Yo i heard we have to face a strong finisher in volleyball..."

Student 2: "Fuck man were gonna lose 15-1"

Student 3: *shits pants*

Strong Finisher: "Fuck bitches, get money........Bitch"
Strong Finisher by La roux March 16, 2010

Finisher (Technique) 

A technique that a girl will use during sex to finish you off (make you reach orgasm) while she's riding you, stroking you, etc.

Examples of "finishers" a girl may use on you right before you cum
- Biting her lip, smiling, and staring into your eyes
- Leaning towards you until she's right in front of your face
- Grabbing you by the wrists and pinning your arms over your head
- Squeezing your erection as hard as possible with her vaginal muscles
- Leaning over you, grabbing the headboard, and riding you even harder
- Rubbing / stroking your chest, legs, neck, abs, arms, back, shoulders etc.
- Slowly sliding her hands / nails along your chest and abdomen
- Raising her arms over her head and riding you hands-free
- Wrapping her arms / legs around you and squeezing you
- Putting her finger to your lips and saying “Sssshhhh!”
- Squirting all over you as she herself reaches orgasm
- Taking your face into her hands and kissing you deeply
- Hovering / shaking her breasts / ass above your face
- Grinning and starting at you with crazy, sexy eyes
- Swinging her head so that her hair whips around
- Sternly staring at you without saying anything
- Leaning down and kissing you passionately
- Dangling her hair above your face
- Grabbing you by the neck / throat / hair
- Whispering something sexy in your ear
- Saying something in a foreign language
- Covering your mouth with her hand
- Whipping you with a riding crop
- Thrusting / riding even harder
- Fondling / stroking your balls
- Increasing her pace / speed / friction
- Repeatedly shouting your name
- Staring at you with “bedroom eyes”
- Tickling you unexpectedly
- Moaning louder and harder
- Digging her nails into you
- Laughing / giggling
- Caressing you

Finisher (Technique)

The Rocky Ford Finisher 

“A sexual act, where the girl performs oral sex on you, and before you climax she runs up the stairs and your shoot her in the back with your load like a Rock Ford police officer.
“Damn bro, Brad gave his girl the Rocky Ford finisher last night “

finisher 

You know when you're jerking off and cycling through all those chick in your mind... well the finisher is the chick you finish jerking with.
Stacey was totally my finisher last time I whacked it!
finisher by Gordon A. Ronis June 1, 2010
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Andrew Tate has mastered the field of larpenomics
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Palmela Handerson 

Your hand that you masturbate with.
Girlfriend: What are you going to do for the next week while I'm on holiday?

Boyfriend: Have a visit from Palmela Handerson of course!
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