Arousal from a partner’s intensely perverted, devious fantasies about you—especially weird, taboo, or degrading forms of body worship, fixation, or lust that you’d never indulge in yourself. The turn-on is purely in how filthy, obsessive, and wrong their mind gets when fixated on you.
“I’m not into whatever niche thing, but I’ve got total deviaphilia—his filthy brain going there about me is what gets me off.”
“I don’t care about feet, but the fact that he jerks off thinking about sniffing mine after I’ve been sweating all day? That makes me wet. ”
“I’d never let him piss on me, but hearing him whisper how he fantasizes about it while staring at me in the shower? God, yes.”
when you're holding up your phone and making faces at it, as though you are taking a selfie, but you're really taking a picture of the person across from you or the wall or anything else that seems interesting but you don't want to be caught dead taking a picture of.
This action is often made more convincing by wiggling the eyebrows or opening the mouth, to pretend you're trying to get a Snapchat filter to work.
FRIEND A: "Did you just take a stealthie of me?"
FRIEND B (turning phone around): "no I was just using snapchat's new filter, see?"