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gaydiate [gay] 

When someone is so gay that they literally radiate the gayness.
Wow, that drag queen was gaydiating.
gaydiate [gay] by In your eye July 28, 2005
Mocking the word Karate, This is the flicking extremely efeminant motions that some homosexuals makes in a fight or in defense. The elbows bent hands up small and pensive karate chops at their opponent.

Not an effective fighting style
jerald: so i heard martin got into it with some guy over his boyfriend last night at the kegger.

Francis: yeah, they both duked it out with some gayrate and then they got pulled apart before someone broke a nail.
Gayrate by Randoni April 13, 2009

Gay Date 

Similar to a “playdate”, only with all guys. This shameful act can be observed in a suburban neighborhood when husbands all meet on one neighbors swing-set accompanied by their children to hang out and speak amongst themselves. Most likely each of them have been sent out of their homes with their kids inbound because their overworked stay-at-home mommy wives needed some “me time” to recover from the harsh reality of their disappointing happily-ever-after’s. Of course, topics of discussion between these pussy-whooped, sad excuses for men would never include anything like: sports, movies, music, tits, cars, or anything else normal men talk about….and worst of all, no alcoholic beverages are consumed by any of them. Anyone involved in this act can only count the minutes until Monday morning comes, and they are able to return to their comfy cubicles so that they can work 10 hours a day in the corporate prison that offers the only escape from serving the lifetime sentence from their marriage.
Wow, it looks like all the neighbors are having a gay date again in their backyard. Lame!

Gay Date 

Engaging in a day of frivolous activities with close friends, while having the time of your lives. Sharing hearty laughs and special moments that will last a lifetime. Esp. at a park, beach, boardwalk, or coastline with scenic views.

Helpful accessories: Kite, Digital camera, Ipod (with speakers), Sunscreen, Towels/blankets etc
Let's have a gay date in Long Beach! I'll bring the tunes, you bring the kite, we'll have a blasty!

Popular example = this scene at the end of Anchorman:

"We are laughing!

And we are
very good friends.

Good buddies sharing
a special moment."

"Don't say anything, Ron.
Just let it happen."

"We're laughing,
enjoying our friendship...

And someday we'll look back
on this with much fondness."

"Yeah."
Gay Date by Danny Dyce September 18, 2008

gay-date 

When two male co-workers go to lunch together without any one else from the office and without inviting anyone else.
The office decided to go to Chipotle for lunch, but Jae and A-Train gay-dated it up and went to Kabob together instead.
gay-date by Andy "The Deputy" October 15, 2008
n. Heterosexual person who actively supports the homosexual lifestyle and the gay rights movement. May have gay relatives, friends, coworkers or neighbors. May participate in the equal rights movement through political petitioning, sharing of propaganda on social media, proselytizing/education, marching in pride parades, attending gay weddings, etc. Vocal against homofoes.
"Not just some of my best friends are gay, most of them are! I'm more than a faghag, I'm a gaymate!"

"For the first time in history we have a president who is a gaymate. Things are moving in the right direction."
gaymate by Miss Alaineous June 29, 2013
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briefcake 

"Did you check out the briefcake in courtroom C?"
briefcake by Ben Frey April 6, 2006
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Brought to public attention by Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein in the book on the fall of Richard Nixon, All The President’s Men, ratfucker was Nixon’s term for a political operative who sows chaos among opponents; an agent provocateur. It is thought to have originated among campus political rivalries at USC, and seems to have some usage in the US military.
Along with Nixon’s other ratfuckers, Roger Stone caused fights at otherwise peaceful Democratic Party protests to generate a false narrative that the Democrats were violent and dangerous.
Ratfucker by Ricky Ramjet November 2, 2017
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countrypolitan 

Term used to describe someone who is a mix of both rural (country) and urban (metropolitan) lifestyles/upbringings. He/she is typically equally comfortable in both settings and is able to seamlessly slip back and forth between the two, appreciating the characteristics of each.
That ol' gal of mine drives the 12 lane freeway during the week and a John Deere on the weekends. She likes opra and the Grand Ol' Opry. I love them countrypolitan women.
countrypolitan by MOChick November 7, 2006
Word of the Day on November 1, 2026

Witch Bath 

A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

An excuse for people to write porn with different types of kinks throughout the month of October.

Smut Fanfiction
That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
Word of the Day on October 30, 2026

proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
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