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genderwang

Metaphysical, magical notions about humans that are labeled as "gender" for political and social purposes, but constitute the exaltation of mundane personality traits. Typically incorporates ignorance or outright denial of observable biology, uses contradictory ideas - e.g. gender is both a "social construct" and an immutable, unquestionable internal trait - as well as made-up words that don't mean anything.
A: I'm a non-binary cakegender and my pronouns are xie/xir
B: Firstly, that's a bunch of genderwang. You're a straight, white woman LARPing for social capital. Secondly, and more importantly, I don't know why you're telling me any of this when all I asked for was a Big Mac and large fries.
genderwang by TSCX September 1, 2023

GenderDanger

/ˈgenderˌdanger/

You’re on the Titanic, and it’s sinking. The crew (Fisherman) says “Women an children on the lifeboat first.” You explain to the crew (Fisherman) that you identify as a woman, and that you should be allowed to access the lifeboat.

Basically. GenderDanger is a way of identifying yourself in the sense of danger. And adapting your gender based on the situation.
“Are you assuming male, based on my appearance? Im actually GenderDanger”

“Actually. Let me on this boat, im female.”
GenderDanger by Chinleno November 26, 2022

Gandering 

Grabbing ones junk or someone else's junk. In the spirit of goosing someone's ass, only from the front.
I wasn't all that into my wife goosing my ass, but she can start gandering me anytime she wants. Preferably in the morning.
Gandering by Atlas of the 6 March 9, 2010

Gandermingle 

1: A look shared by two people who want the same thing but that both are unwilling to start.

2: A look shared by two friends that conveys their exact thoughts without words.
1: Robby and I gandermingled all night but I never managed to ask him out.

2: My sister and I gandermingled all through her speech because we KNEW that bitch was a fake ass hoe.
Gandermingle by Caelus July 17, 2011

gingerbang 

Getting fingered at the club on the dance floor
"last night, i was at the club being ratchet and this guy totally gingerbanged me. it was epic" - Rosie
gingerbang by Marcus Kristinson September 11, 2016

Genderbanger 

When you meet the person of your dreams but their the wrong gender
Omg it's the person of my dreams
Why are they the wrong gender?
WHAT THE FUCK
...genderbanger...
Genderbanger by WolfGirl7 April 17, 2023
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WhimZ by WhimZ! November 5, 2026
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Frothability 

The measure of an emotional and over zealous consumer in an upwardly charging market, also known as a bull market. It's characterized by rising asset prices, increased investor confidence, and favorable growth in the markets, bro.
The frothability was evident as over-zealous consumers eagerly engaged in bidding wars, driving property prices to unsustainable levels reminiscent of previous speculative bubbles.
Frothability by cptn.kagaroo1 January 26, 2024
Word of the Day on November 12, 2026

Soul digger

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.
"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
Soul digger by anonymous November 11, 2026
Word of the Day on November 11, 2026

pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
Word of the Day on November 10, 2026
A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
Word of the Day on November 9, 2026

No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
Word of the Day on November 8, 2026
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