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A female incel.
A woman who can't get a relationship
Becky is a femcel, she wants a relationship but can't get one to save her life
Femcel by Cananiggagetasandwich September 13, 2020
Although the main definition would be something along the lines of "female incel", the term femcel is often just used to describe various personality traits. Yes, a femcel is a celibate woman (voluntarily or not), but with time, the word has mostly been used to describe single women interested in (non exhaustive list) :

- the internet. Femcels are known to be chronically online first and foremost.

- being mentally ill, in one way or another.

- being obsessed with femboys/being a yandere.

- listening to "femcel music" : mitski, fleetwood mac, blondie, princess chelsea, deftones, deathgrips...

- having "femcel hobbies" : video games, horror, a mix of both, "cutesy" things, art, spending all day in bed doing absolutely nothing, anime...

- generally being a social reject, especially in real life, and mostly having online friend (if any IRL friends at all).
"i haven't left my room in a week and my back really hurts."

"Yeah, maybe that's because you've been doing nothing but rewatching Serial Experiments Lain for the 100th time and listening to three hours deep dives about every PS2 psychological horror games with a woman protagonist you could find."

"lol yeah i guess."

"You're such a fucking femcel."
Femcel by sharkazzz September 26, 2023
woman who probably kins asuka from nge and laughs at lain memes
"oh i like lain" says girl "oh okay u femcel"
femcel by Ajkacon May 31, 2021
women that enjoy to listen to both male manipulator music like the smiths, radiohead e.g. and female manipulator music like fiona apple, lana del rey e.g. they are opinionated as fuck and not only hate men but also hate women, they hate everyone and everything. their favourite class is english and they hate the male gaze but would definitely be written by a man. they are most likely mentally ill and problematic.
oh my god she is suchhhh a femcel, her music taste is so diverse and she is sooooo based wow she reads too?? she’s so different!
femcel by opinionated cool girl September 30, 2021

trans-femcel 

an absolutely awesome girl with no attachment issues or mental disorders. Will probably still gaslight you though, and say ':3' ALOT
''Hai! I came out yesterday, I'm a trans-femcel, wanna go and tell moids to kill themselves?''
trans-femcel by EvieVivi October 24, 2023
Girls/Women who not only love male manipulator music but also female manipulator music. She loves Fiona Apple and kins Alaska (looking for Alaska). She actually doesn’t take men seriously and she can be easily mistaken as a “manic pixie dream girl” when in fact she probably is a misandrist. We love femcels!
Oh my god Sarah is a femcel she started reading John green books when she was 12.
Femcel by Ilovemgg June 7, 2021
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