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#NotMe is a term used predominantly by heterosexual men on social media to express their active avoidance of situations, engagements, and encounters with women that could potentially lead to accusations of sexual harassment or assault. This term is a response to the aftermath of the #MeToo movement and is considered a sub-movement of the MWA (Men Walking Away) movement. Men using this term are choosing to avoid situations that could result in wrongful accusations, including developing close relationships with female colleagues, making the first move on dates, spending time alone with romantic interests, and only engaging in formal communication with women who are not close friends or family members.
After witnessing the repercussions of the #MeToo movement, John decided to adopt the #NotMe stance, choosing to avoid any situation that could potentially lead to a misunderstanding or false accusation.
#NotMe by Angry Guy MWA October 12, 2023
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#NotMyRodrick

A hashtag, primary used on Twitter, that was created because of the new actor portraying Rodick Heffley in Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Long Haul. Our beloved emo Rodrick (actor Devon Bostick) will be greatly missed when Farquad and Willy Wonka take over (actor Charlie Wright).
He looks like Farquad #NotMyRodrick
Have you seen the new Rodick? Where did our emo Rodrick go? #NotMyRodrick
#NotMyRodrick by Wtf Dan March 26, 2017

#NOTMYRODRICK

A phrase meaning that Charlie Wright should not be Rodrick because his dick is two inches.
Charlie: Why does everybody hate me?

Rodrick: Because you're not me *flips on shades* #NOTMYRODRICK BITCH
#NOTMYRODRICK by BoiDafaqqq April 21, 2017

#NotMyDoctor

Hashtag started in protest of BBC casting Jodie Whittaker as the new lead in Doctor Who, changing the character's gender after 55 years being male.
Jodie Whittaker is #NotMyDoctor, and I will not watch show anymore!
#NotMyDoctor by sesmith70 October 6, 2018

#notmyhost

The movement by only the truest HQuties that occurs when the hype countdown on HQ Trivia ends and you're welcomed by the worst back-up since left shark.
"Puppies are life" -Sarah
"( . Y . )" -HQ Chat
"#notmyhost" -HQ chat
#notmyhost by Mr. Tim May 27, 2018

#notmydoctor

a hashtag created by middle aged men with a fragile masculinity who cant handle a woman playing a character which has been male.

#notmyrowley

Just like #notmyrodrick but with our bean rowley Jefferson.
Friend 1) Hey, have you watched that new DOAWK movie?

Friend 2) yeah, it was pretty shit. Not only was that not my Rodrick, it was #notmyrowley either.
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
Word of the Day on October 29, 2026
The number of years you are still sexually active
While our lifespan is the number of years we will live, our healthspan is the number of healthy years we will have and our sexspan is is the number of years we will continue to be healthy enough to continue having an active sex life.
sexspan by Dr Kat April 21, 2022
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A lighthearted reaction upon receiving disappointing news of some sort. Usually something that isn't a particularly a big deal, esp. when it primarily affects someone else - sort of a mild schadenfreude. Sometimes doubled or tripled, and possibly said in a sing-songy voice for added comedic effect to imitate a muted trumpet, which is how the meme originated.
You didn't get any napkins with your takeout pork fried rice? Womp womp.
womp by 175623226 November 3, 2011
Word of the Day on October 27, 2026
When your wife’s boyfriend let you sleep past 8pm 😎😎
Wife’s boyfriend: You have 5 more minutes
Me: Poggers!
Poggers by Just_Charles April 14, 2020
Word of the Day on October 26, 2026

Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
Word of the Day on October 25, 2026

Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
Word of the Day on October 24, 2026
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