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when two people like each other a lot and have established that they like each other but they aren't technically "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" yet but they don't talk to other people
John and I have been talking for months, I wonder when he will ask me out.
talking by rankrankinrank February 15, 2017
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What Charles Ryder and Julia Flyte do on the ship back to England in Catholic convert Evelyn Waugh's 1945 novel Brideshead Revisited.
"All next day Julia and I spent together without interruption; talking, scarcely moving, held in our chairs by the swell of the sea."
talking by JesuitsRule February 17, 2021
When you talk to someone a lot and you like them but you aren’t dating yet.
Ryan: are you and Eva dating

Tom: not yet we are only talking
talking by shadyshaccus July 9, 2019
When two people are not exclusive with each other nor have established what they are as a couple, but have some sort of relationship.
"John and I go out a lot but we're just talking." or "We've been talking for months now but we're not together."
talking by Mike June 16, 2004
The stage between 'just friends' and 'dating'. Usually ends badly without closure, as there wasn't an actual relationship. Almost never materializes into a real relationship either. Also really stupid. Basically friends with benefits, but both parties have feelings for the other. Really confusing because that should just be dating. There shouldn't be an in between period of awkwardness and 'defining the relationship'.
"I see Kim and Tom together a lot! Are they dating?"

"No, they're talking."

"Oh. That's dumb."
Talking by Ann77 May 11, 2015
to me talking is you when you are really into someone and want to be in a relationship with them but want to make sure you 100% like that person and ready to be with them in a relationship before you confirm anything it’s like you don’t want to go into a relationship blind about that person and half way through realize you don’t actually like them. so your “talking” with them first and if your talking to someone your basically taken idc.
girl: hey matt your really cute we should hook up sometime🥰
guy: sorry i’m actually talking to someone right now
talking by flattymaddie July 7, 2020
When two people like eachother and are getting to know each other better,but are still single and not "going out" yet.
I've been talking to talking to this boy for a few weeks, but hes not my boyfriend yet.
Talking by alex December 5, 2003
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