Often used to spice up a couple's sex life, pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on dildo (or holds a handheld dildo/vibrator) and uses it to have anal sex with her male significant other. The act of pegging is rewarding for the man because it can likely assist him in achieving a prostate
orgasm; arguably the most stimulating and rewarding
orgasm for a man. Pegging has nothing to do with one's sexual orientation. If a man and a woman engage in this act together, this does not make the man gay in any way. Because of the stigma that society often places on anal sex, a heterosexual man may feel
awkward or even ashamed for enjoying this type of stimulation, primarily because he does not want to be perceived as
homosexual. A woman who pegs a man should encourage and assure him so that he is comfortable and relaxed. Pegging creates a state of submission, where the man is relinquishing all control to the woman; not natural for most men. This type of sexual activity can
help couples achieve a closer and more intimate sex life.
Pegging can also occur between two
people of the same sex, and is often a method of vaginal/
anal stimulation between lesbian couples.
Jane surprised her husband Bill with a new sex
toy; a
strap-on. Bill now loves pegging sessions in the bedroom, but would never admit such a
thing to any of his fishing buddies!