The meaning of fucktoy when a man calls his woman this, depends on the context in which it's used. Far from demeaning, when
said in the throes of passion, it can be a torrid word of endearment, especially in a D/s dominant/
submissive relationship.
Jay: "Ohhhhhh, you are my Fucktoy,
mine to do with as I please!" Jane: "Ohhhhh God... Say it again ... again ... use me for your
pleasure. I
love being your Fucktoy. I want it so bad I can't stand. My pussy is throbbing for you to be inside me."