The meaning of fucktoy when a
man calls his woman this, depends on the context in which it's used. Far from demeaning, when
said in the throes of passion, it can be a torrid word of endearment, especially in a D/s dominant/submissive
relationship.
Jay: "Ohhhhhh, you are my Fucktoy,
mine to do with as I please!" Jane: "Ohhhhh God... Say it again ... again ... use me for your pleasure. I love being your Fucktoy. I want it so
bad I can't stand. My pussy is throbbing for you to be inside me."