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Hate Fuck 

When you hate a persons guts, but you wouldn't mind being inside them.
Becky's such a bitch but I would hate fuck the shit out of her
Hate Fuck by kjbhuttvcvutyib March 26, 2017

hate fuck 

An act of aggressive sex with someone as if they had no respect for the person as an equal human being, regardless if they actually do, or not. Hate fucking usually entails aggressive, sometimes violent, degrading, and humiliating sexual acts and behaviors perpetrated by an aggressive party onto a submissive, solely in the interest of the aggressor's own pleasure and amusement, and without regard for the submissive party's enjoyment or well being.

Unlike rape, hate fucking is a form of consensual sex where the submissive party has agreed (for whatever reason) to accept the treatment and behavior of the aggressor. Though unlike proper BDSM, the submissive party has not previously discussed boundaries, likes or dislikes, and doesn't necessarily enjoy all, or even any of the treatment they receive.
Women with low self-esteem, and most commonly women in porn, are often the subjects of a hate fucking.
hate fuck by pseudodumbass December 3, 2013

Hate fuck 

Jill was about to hate fuck a guy she despised, but she was mercurial so at times she was also his best fucking friend too.
Hate fuck by Solid Mantis April 13, 2018

Vampire Hate Fuck 

As seen on the third episode of the third season of True Blood:
Vampire Hate Fuck is the act of angrily twisting a person's head backwards a complete 180 degrees so that you don't have to look at their face while you fuck them violently out of pure hate and spite. Unlike rape, this experience is welcomed by the person having their head twisted.
I'm gonna have to Vampire Hate Fuck that bitch.

pretzel hate fuck

Angry sex with a slut, where the male pins her legs in the air, either her knees to her tits or her feet to her ears (forming a pretzel). Than conintues ravage her pussy in an angry fashion (hate)
Sisco: Tank Slow down
Tank: this is slow

Tank pins Cuddles knees to her chest and speeds up.

next day
TANK: I hate fuck that slut
Sisco: she looked like a pretzel
Tank: I "pretzel hate fuck" her
pretzel hate fuck by Tank December 13, 2008

hate-fuck 

hate fuck it's the same thing here, just spelled out differently.
v. She's such a cunt; I'd fuck her, but only hate-fuck.
hate-fuck by P Gibby November 29, 2004
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

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Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
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