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Stemmed the rose
Stemmed the rose by factcurate June 9, 2020
Stemme
A word derived from the words stud and femme used in the lesbian community to describe a woman who is boyish but in a very feminine way. Stemmes usually dress more feminine than their stud counterparts but are more butch than their femme counterparts.
Stemme, however, may be descriptive of how much emotionality and sensitivity a lesbian has versus how they choose to dress.
Stemme falls under the concept of androgyny as does stud, futch (a femme whose a bit butch), butch, soft butch, etc...
As far as femininity goes:
Femme>Stemme>Futch>Soft Butch> Stud
Stemme, however, may be descriptive of how much emotionality and sensitivity a lesbian has versus how they choose to dress.
Stemme falls under the concept of androgyny as does stud, futch (a femme whose a bit butch), butch, soft butch, etc...
As far as femininity goes:
Femme>Stemme>Futch>Soft Butch> Stud
Stemmy
stimming
Stim, stims or stimming is short for "self stimulation". Almost everyone does it(tapping feet, cracking knuckles, twiddling thumbs), but in autistic people these behaviors are more pronounced and may seem downright strange. Autistic people often engage in stimming when they are stressed, to self regulate and sometimes to express emotion.
Common autistic stims are: rocking back and forth, headbanging(not the music kind), finger flicking/rippling, spinning, humming, repeating words or sounds and complex body contortions.
Common autistic stims are: rocking back and forth, headbanging(not the music kind), finger flicking/rippling, spinning, humming, repeating words or sounds and complex body contortions.
Good music makes me stim a lot.
Stimming shouldn't be discouraged, it's a means for me to understand my environment.
Stimming shouldn't be discouraged, it's a means for me to understand my environment.
Stimmel
Stimmel by LongLivePJS August 8, 2017
stemmin'
The act of a homeless person, opiate or crack addict standing in a major intersection (during red lights) with an empty plastic drink cup asking each car waiting at the light for money.
The change stays in the cup and the bills are put somewhere else.
The change stays in the cup and the bills are put somewhere else.
"I do like $75 day stemmin' at the highway intersection" Really? I make more at Broadway and Main. Sometimes 2 hondos! I'm gonna buy me some K2 and not have to share it this time! Total tax free! Feelin' me bro?
stemmin' by Cutchacokoff November 17, 2018
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Blexas has been cited as possible in the upcoming decades, but only if Democrats continue to win the Hispanic vote in bigger margins.
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Ratfucker
Brought to public attention by Bob Woodward and Carl Bernstein in the book on the fall of Richard Nixon, All The President’s Men, ratfucker was Nixon’s term for a political operative who sows chaos among opponents; an agent provocateur. It is thought to have originated among campus political rivalries at USC, and seems to have some usage in the US military.
Along with Nixon’s other ratfuckers, Roger Stone caused fights at otherwise peaceful Democratic Party protests to generate a false narrative that the Democrats were violent and dangerous.
Ratfucker by Ricky Ramjet November 2, 2017
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