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When the combination of destiny and momentum collide and give birth to an extraordinary result. Typically these occurances happen in high stake athletic events, where everything worth living for is on the line.
Example: It’s the final four in March Madness and your biggest rival just hit a 3 to go up 2 with 6.9 seconds left. You’re really fucking emotional about this game, and have a substantial bet with your girlfriends dad and you NEED to big dick him here. Your team inbounds the ball and the pressure is so intense it seems like it’s over before he can cross half court, but your boy #7 (after seeing the other team hit that three) gets overcome with a confidence that gives him the power to pull out his muscle memory and talent, and pulls a mean step back and drains a three for the win. It was one of those shots that anyone would have missed 99/100 times if they tried it again. But because of the situation, the people watching, the money on the line, and the legacy that shot would create, he made it. THAT, is destum.
Destum by Crevice14 March 25, 2022
Urban Dictionary Merch
destim (root words destimulation )(DEEE stim) - verb

to destim or destimulate.

this is when you or someone needs to calm and turn off the tv or all the external stimuli that cause aggravation or over hypersensitivity, or over stimulation.

it's most often used in issues regarding ptsd, and people with anxiety disorders, and depression, and anger issues.

destim can also be as a descriptive term

examples are a destim room,

or a destim suit (often with(or without) ear plugs and a hood, and sometimes mittens booties, used to restrict movement and calm the body and mind.)
when you go home i want you to destimulate yourself turn off the tv and go relax crawl into a hot bubble bath or something i know things were rough on you today.

i had to crawl into my destim suit after such a rotten day everything was on my nerves.

bobby had the tv the radio the scanner the computer and radio on. after ten minutes with them i had to go to my room and destim.

After hearing the gun shots and ambulances across the street at wallchart on Black Friday i had to crawl into my sleeper sack to destim or i would have had a full blown ptsd moment.

i had to destim after watching the horror movie it scared me to much.

it's destim time for you alley you are getting to excited and wound up, and are going to have an episode
destim by Al3y December 7, 2013
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Stupid Friend: "No matter what I try to do, I can't get the microwave to work."

Smart Friend: "Try plugging it in first you fucking moron."

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detumescence 

Tumescence in reverse; the process where, after ejaculation, a man's penis shrinks and reverts to "normal" pre-sexual size.
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"I get boners quick but after sex I lose them quick too. My dick goes back to normal size before I can say "detumescence".

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detumescence by al-in-chgo March 12, 2010

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