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A person or couple (gruelers) who tries to push him/herself into a social scene that is beyond their status or out of their social norm - ending up taxing the whole party.

Also a person who tries too hard to be friends with a specific group of tight knit friends and does not fit in.
Justin: Yeah, I just got a new H2 after I got back from Whistler and it barely fits in the garage of my new 5 BR House in Stratville. You'd think they'd design garages bigger. You been to Jackson?

Regular: I've been out there, it's nice. Excuse me. (turning to regular chick) "what a freakin' grueler."
grueler by T.K.F. March 5, 2008
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Grohlery 

The word “Grohlery” was created by Foo Fighters fans. It means “a place where you can retreat from the world when you're in bad mood.”

Origin: This word is a derivative of the now obsolete term growlery created by Charles Dickens.
"I'm going to the Grohlery to listen to the Foo Fighters and recoup." 🎶🎧
Grohlery by FooBunny December 16, 2019
Hard day's work
That was a fucking gruler today!
Gruler by Boss of the bosses June 16, 2018
Running away from your job and responsibilities when people’s lives are on the line.
Man, I had to pull a Gruler! I definitely didn’t want to get involved with that fight.
Gruler by Stetson 2012 August 20, 2018
Someone that does not wipe their butthole or penis or even wash their hands after using the loo.
“I didn’t hear the sink water running when Joe left the bathroom. What a grupler.”
grupler by BOIBOYBOOOIIII March 8, 2018
When someone is giving you stick. Taking the piss out of you. In enniscorthy or Wexford
Aw he was giving me a gruler over it
Gruler by Scorthy December 14, 2024
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Hipstamatic pictures, just like the vinyl-static added to digital recordings, is prime fauxstalgia
fauxstalgia by scotte61 December 16, 2010
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We have a Zoom meeting in a few minutes and I’ll probably go pajama casual.
pajama casual by jrod-knows March 31, 2020
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funflation 

The recent boom in consumer spending on entertainment and experiences with a high demand running up the cost of enjoying of those experiences.
I’m trying to go to this Taylor Swift concert but the funflation has made it so impossible for me to afford tickets.
funflation by Dfree523 November 17, 2023
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Take the big pirogue, I saw a huge swamp dog out there earlier.
swamp dog by Crystal Ambrose May 22, 2006
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Throat Sweats 

The feeling and build up in your mouth/throat of saliva that sometimes accompanies nausea.
Oh man those burritos gave me the throat sweats, I hope I don’t have food poisoning.
Throat Sweats by TacoFings420 April 23, 2024
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Being ignored by someone when making a statement or asking a question. Also known as blanked and turfed.
Person 1: Did u watch ** last nite?
Person 2:......
Person 3: O no u got aired!
aired by Pietro February 9, 2005
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