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Frame Control

Frame control is the little-known underlying phenomenon that dictates the outcome of every social interaction. It originates from the domain of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and how we humans categorize different situations into subjective psychological categories. A frame is an instrument you use to package your power, authority, strength, information and status. Almost all high-performance speakers use frame control to control the flow and outcome of a conversation.

It is, in essence, the act of imposing a mental/psychological viewpoint on any situation and forcing that situation to "conform" to that frame or belief. This is a fundamental component of self-motivation and social intelligence.

It generates an invisible energy field around you. The art of frame control requires unconscious conviction in your ideas as well as congruency between your intentions, speech patterns, and body language.

The art of frame control is most commonly used by PUA (pick up artist) and salesmen and is based on the laws of levels of consciousness.
Examples of basic PUA frame control:

Society frame: If a girl has sex with a lot of men, she is a slut.

Alpha male frame: Sex is healthy, normal, fun and a win-win for the girl and me. She wants to have sex with me so she can make a decision if we are a good fit for each other based off our chemistry.
Frame Control by handlez October 26, 2022
Related Words
frafe • Fra Fee • Frake • Fraf • frace • fraff • Frage • fragfest • frajer • Fraker

The Art Of Frame Control 

The nature of reality is inherently ambiguous and is open to various interpretations. Gaining a greater degree of control over one's internal and external psychology is the most important factor in increasing one's level of success in all aspects of life. The collective congruency between your internal self and your external results is a Frame. Whoever is more confident in their interpretation will be able to control everyone's interpretations around them, this is known as The Art of Frame Control. Whatever man knows frame control will be able to gain the upper hand in any social situation, whether they are trying to land a big deal, convince their spouse to get on board with a decision, or pick up a hot date.

Josh King Madrid, better known as JetSet or JetSetFly wrote a book called The Art Of Frame Control after writing JETSET Life Hacks.
Billy: I can't find anyone who wants to buy my products and girls never pay me any attention. I been working on my mindset and it's not working. I've tried everything... Josh King Madrid teach me the jet set way so I can level up & live the jetset life too.

JetSetFly: Stop trying so hard and just use The Art Of Frame Control and it will happen automatically and effortlessly.

Dr David Hawkins: That is a fact at 499 LOC, Oh Lord. **Calibrates the LOC of josh king madrid's statement with muscle testing**

2 weeks later:
Billy: I'm now a multi-millionaire with 4 hot girlfriends, thanks for teaching me the art of frame control. The Jet Set Way truly is the only way.
JetSetFly: Makes a lot of sense.
The Art Of Frame Control by piaheza September 29, 2022

seconds per frame 

seconds per frame (spf) is used when talking about the performance of a potato in gaming
Tom: Damn, Cold War is running amazing on my new PC, 60 fps at 4K!
Dan: Woah, that's amazing, my potato is doing 60 seconds per frame.
seconds per frame by dragonbgn January 21, 2021
To be drunk. It comes from the (fan) theory that Commander Riker in Star Trek: The Next Generation is a functioning alcoholic and everything that he does, from major decisions to hitting on women, is motivated primarily by the fact that he is, in fact, drunk. Can be used in almost any circumstance! See also: Riker'd
Man I was so Fraked last night I totally picked up a green Orion slavegirl.
Fraked by Prole Hole October 8, 2011

faafetai 

Faafetai is a word from a native language, Samoa. It means 'thank you' in Samoan.
Faafetai for the food.
faafetai by Henry Lau December 1, 2013
Is used to describe the quickness/hastiness of an action. In videos games, a hitbox appears at some point during a character's attack animation. Some attacks charge-up or go through several frames before the attack lands. Frame 1 is the quickest point at which an attack can come out causing instant damage and usually stun-locking. If a person says they are doing something "frame 1" it means they are doing it instantly.
When Cyberpunk 2077 goes on preorder, you know we preordering FRAME 1!
frame 1 by uninspiredradio July 10, 2019
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
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Surf Dracula Syndrome 

A phenomenon in film/television series, most notably streaming series, where the main premise is drawn out to such a point that it takes an entire season or more to get the parts of the series the audience is actually interested in seeing.

For example, if a series is titled "Surf Dracula," a majority of viewers would tune in expecting to see Dracula surfing by the first or second episode. However, the entire first season would instead be tedious padding and backstory before finally ending with Dracula surfing in the last five minutes of the season finale.
I watched "Smallville" on Netflix the other day. Dude, it was ten seasons of filler before he finally flew! Major Surf Dracula Syndrome!
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Northstarring

Finding your way back to the truth by fixing on one verified fact and working out from there, the way you navigate by the North Star when everything around you is spinning.
Rumours were flying everywhere, so she went northstarring — one checked fact at a time.
Northstarring by Light Bearer October 22, 2026
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Plate of Brown 

A plate of brown consists of foods that have little to no nutritional value, and are typically deep fried. A true plate of brown will also be accompanied by a dark soda.
Wanna go to meal hall & grab a plate of brown?
Plate of Brown by Cheddar Craigson September 18, 2020
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Larpenomics

When finance content creators rent out fancy cars and flex cash to seem richer than they really are in order to promote and sell their “get rich quick” courses.
Andrew Tate has mastered the field of larpenomics
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