Soben

A dream. Seriously though, that is the actual meaning of the name. But also a really cute and amazing guy, he's typically tall, but goddamn he's hot. He's very smart, even if he talks a LOT and gives off a lot of teacher's pet vibes, he will care about you if you are close. He happens to be pretty athletic too, good swimmer, good runner, depends. He can be an incredible actor too, albeit how much he exaggerates a little too much sometimes. He's very sensitive and emotional, a bit romantic too if that counts, so if he gets sad or depressed make sure you comfort him or the tables will turn. He may be dry or a little cold-blooded, but if he confirms that he loves you, oh boy he means it, it's just his personality so you shouldn't worry, unless it twists very seriously of course. If you ever cross paths with him one day, you're lucky, just note that maybe he could be taken.

Person 1 : Damnn, now who is THAT hot dude.
Me : My guy, Soben 😎

Soben by inetta.yourmom_69 February 23, 2023

boy sober 

not talking to a boy,talking about boys, or dating a boy

Ella Kate: Did you talk to Derick about yalls relationship?
Isabella: no, I told him I was boy sober.

boy sober by aly$$a_ November 2, 2017

Soberfication 

When one abruptly loses their alcohol-induced inebriation due a shock of cold temperature upon going outdoors, causing an immediate sobering effect; similar to drinking three black coffees.

Travis stepped outside after a full afternoon and night of drinking massive quantities of strong beers and dining on delicious Southern BBQ only to experience immediate soberfication.

Soberfication by bluesandbarbq November 7, 2011

Sober Sleepover 

The point in a relationship when you are officially dating someone even if you haven't had the 'are we dating' conversation. Several drunken sleepovers may have occured at this point but once a Tuesday rolls around, you watch a movie together, and have a alcohol free sleepover...you are dating.

Ben: How are things with Julie? You've been hanging out a ton. Are you all dating yet?
Rich: Good, but no way we've only hung out 3 or 4 times.
Ben: Have you had a sober sleepover?
Rich: Um...yeah.
Ben: Dude, you're totally dating.

Sober Sleepover by bhl1677 December 10, 2009

Sobernormativity 

Sobernormativity is the anti-drug belief that sobriety is the norm and therefore the only acceptable way of life. Proponents of sobernormative lifestyles will often drink at parties, only to judge someone else for smoking up or doing harder drugs.

Sobernormativity is associated with sobriety, losers, boredom, and the fact that too many people are in jail for wanting to have fun.
Sobernormativity is also known as an antonym to soberphobia.

Frank: I got busted for pot possession while driving through Mississippi!
Siavash: What a fucking sobernormative state!

Frank: Yeah, I bet the cop was a supporter of sobernormativity.
Siavash: Let's go to San Fran and take acid since they're not as sobernormative there.
Some Loser: Sobernomativity is social construct made to protect you! Everyone should always be sober and blah blah blah blah blah, because I haven't tried drugs and I don't know what I'm missing out on.

Sobernormativity by Siaman February 3, 2015

sober patch 

The point of drunkedness where you are so drunk that you believe you are sober.

Person A: Guys, I think we've had a lot to drink.
Person B: nah man....you've just hit your sober patch.

sober patch by nycanuck April 16, 2013