Side 

A homosexual male who does not enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation, etc).

Gay man 1: So, are you a top or a bottom?
Gay man 2: Actually, I’m just a side.

Side by Cappy1 October 8, 2018

side 

a gay man who does not partake in anal-penetrative sex; a gay man who enjoys all aspects of intercourse with the exception of anal penetration

Sam: I really like Josh, I think I want to go all the way with him.
Nick: Good luck, Josh is a total side.

side by fckity June 17, 2015

Side 

A homosexual male who prefers more often than not to engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, kissing, frottage, rimming, mutual masturbation, erotic massage, other countless acts of foreplay, etc), as opposed to penetrative anal sex.

Person one: “So are you a top, or a bottom?”

Person two: “If it comes to anal sex I’m more of a top, but generally I’d consider myself mostly a side.”

Side by OfTheWoods May 5, 2022

Side 

When you do not identify with being a top or bottom

“Are you a top or a bottom, man?”
“What are you talking about? I’m definitely a side.”

Side by thatqueer June 22, 2019

Side 

A person who doesn’t enjoy anal penetration (giving or receiving), but will engage in other forms of same sex activity (fellatio, frottage, mutual masturbation, etc).

Willow: So, are you a top or a bottom?

Kerri: Actually, I’m just a side.

Side by Sickomonster December 8, 2022

side 

A gay man who enjoys foreplay, such as kissing, cuddling, manual stimulation, fellatio, and analingus, but not actual sex.

As with anything, discuss any risks and comfort levels with any potential partner(s) prior to having sex. Have real conversations. It’s okay to like what you like and not like what you don’t, as long as you don’t mislead anyone.

“Are you a top, a bottom, or vers?
“I’m more of a side.”

side by alternabear June 17, 2018

Side 

crystal meth; the "side" from "upside down", slang for the top 3 "hard" drugs

up being coke

side being meth

down being heroine

"I still feel like I'm tripping, probably because I did 2 grams of side this weekend"

Side by princess69 April 25, 2016