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phase out 

A methodical and scientific approach of ending a relationship without the other person knowing. This method attempts to leave the post phase out relationship civil for both parties. If starting from a romantic relationship results often end in a casual friendship that can continue for years. Results vary based on expertise. The phase out is based on the principle that anything can be accomplished gradually. It's related to the old science experiment that a frog thrown into hot water will go into shock but a frog left in a pot that is warmed will be fine.

To accomplish a successful phase out, the phaser (person performing the phase out) must evaluate the relationship with the phasee (person being phased out) and arrive at an appropriately paced schedule. No two phase outs are exactly the same, because all relationships are different, but luckily they all use similar steps. The basic rule is to gradually reduce contact (phone, IM, physical) but not in huge jumps. Over the period of two months almost anyone can be phased out. When it comes to the actual breakup, it will often seem so natural to the phasee that they feel it was their idea.
Are you still with your girlfriend? Actually no, I performed a phase out on her about two months ago. We hung out last week though.
phase out by Jonknee March 22, 2006

Phase-out 

a process used to describe the slowing down of the mind from a general audience
Are you even paying attention? Sorry, I was about to phase-out
Phase-out by Phased-out September 26, 2010

But eventually the word will phase out of existence 

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But eventually the word will phase out of existence just like ur dad

out of phase 

Much confused with out of synch, it means that two objects are not in synchronization or are opposing each other. Can be used as an insult if pointed at a single person, meaning "Out of touch with reality"
1. My speakers are out of phase.. i must have crossed the wires
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2. Me and my ex-GF are so out of phase
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3. Bill is SO out of phase
out of phase by FinalPhoenix September 24, 2003

Out-of-Phase Futulier

Out-of-Phase Futulier
out-of-phase futulier
noun
A person who creates, designs, or thinks for a future that hasn’t arrived yet, making their work feel strange, premature, or out of sync with the present.
Everyone thought it was nonsense, but that’s just what an out-of-phase futulier looks like.”

“He’s not behind the times — he’s an out-of-phase futulier. His work just isn’t for now.”
Out-of-Phase Futulier by Heymuse January 2, 2026
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countrypolitan 

Term used to describe someone who is a mix of both rural (country) and urban (metropolitan) lifestyles/upbringings. He/she is typically equally comfortable in both settings and is able to seamlessly slip back and forth between the two, appreciating the characteristics of each.
That ol' gal of mine drives the 12 lane freeway during the week and a John Deere on the weekends. She likes opra and the Grand Ol' Opry. I love them countrypolitan women.
countrypolitan by MOChick November 7, 2006
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A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

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That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
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