When a person is sexually aroused by someone expressing anger in a passionate or violent way, or when a person is sexually aroused by someone expressing their anger at them specifically.
Most often refers to a
BDSM kink where a
man or woman likes to have a person of the opposite, or sometimes even the same
sex, but most often the opposite sex, pretend to be angry at them while indulging in their
BDSM kinks and fetishes together.
Can also refer to when a
man or woman likes to do things or say things to their partner intentionally to annoy or irritate them hoping they
will lash out their anger at them.
From the Classical Greek words for anger, "Orgé" and "Thumós/Thymós"
(From a
college class I was in once):
Professor: So if you take the concept of getting naming things from
Greek and
Latin and attaching "-phobia" or "-philia" to it, that's where we get phobias from, which are fears, and "philias" which are things we
like, or in a more erotic sense, things we
find sexually arousing.
Student: So you can do that with almost any word?
Professor: Technically yes. At least, almost any word. But most likely if you make it up it won't actually be accepted or recognized as a real word.
(Student later on that
day talking to their girlfriend)
Student: Hey I think I finally found a name for that fetish I told you about that?
Student's girlfriend: About liking someone when they get angry?
Student: Yeah! I call it Orgothumophilia!
Student's girlfriend: What the literal fuck?...
