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he/him or he/him/his are pronouns that are used to refer to someone in the third person. he/him is usually used by men or non-binary people but can also be used by women (usually lesbians). he/him are the default pronouns used by AMAB people and used by most men.
example use of he/him pronouns:
person 1: Hey did you see Sam's new hair?
person 2: Oh, yeah! I did his hair looks great.
person 1: I really like the new cut of him.
person 2: definitely, he looks great.
he/him by bean13 September 21, 2020
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The set of pronouns an individual who identifies as the male gender uses.
Josh uses he/him pronouns because he is a male.
he/him by Just a Man, Not a Hero January 7, 2020
A set of pronouns most commonly used by men, he/him pronouns can be used by women and non-binary/gender non conforming people as well
“He is over there” “His bag is over there”
“My pronouns are he/him”
“Sarah’s preferred pronouns are He/him although he’s a girl”
He/Him by Fennwiffthehomo July 22, 2021
He/Him are people who usually pull the baddest Bitches out there, the be having the most HUGE dick, and are always horny asf (they're also kind and amazing ppl)
Girl 1: "You see that guy over there?"
Girl 2: "That my boyfriend, his pronouns are He/Him"
Girl 1: "oh really? I didn't know that,"
Girl 2: "well now you know"
Girl 1: "He's hot"
Girl 2: "I know, and he has a HUGE dick🤤"
Girl 1: "how big is it?"
Girl 2: "8 inches"
Girl 1: "oh.... You wonna do a threesome with both is and your boyfriend?"
Girl 2: "أعود بالله من الشيطان الرجيم"
He/Him by Isuckonyomomspussy March 7, 2022

he/him pussy 

the descriptor of a vagina belonging to a person who uses he/him pronouns, oftentimes a trans man.
"None of you can handle the he/him pussy"

He/Him lesbian 

a he/him lesbian is a lesbian who uses He/Him pronouns, they’ve sparked a lot of discourse because a lot of people accostiate He/Him pronouns with men, which yes a lot of men use He/Him, However gender is defined as “Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to femininity and masculinity and differentiating between them. Depending on the context, this may include sex-based social structures and gender identity” while pronouns are defined as “In linguistics and grammar, a pronoun is a word or a group of words that one may substitute for a noun or noun phrase”, so therefore you can use be any pronouns and be any specific gender identity + also a lot of arguments against He/Him lesbians is “the only time lesbians used He/Him in history was to pass off as men for safety”, which yes there was a lot of lesbians that did that, however historically speak there was lesbians who did that because they felt disconnected from their womenhood, so therefore you need to chill out
person: “you can’t use he/him and be lesbian because he/him pronouns are only for men”
a he/him lesbian: “pronouns and gender by definition are completely two different things also you aren’t lesbian you need to stop speaking over lesbians voices”
He/Him lesbian by lesbian_mess September 12, 2022

He/Him Lesbians 

A lesbian who uses he/him pronouns because they are most comfortable with those pronouns.
He/Him lesbians should totally be respected or you're a lesphobe!
He/Him Lesbians by EbiManami April 21, 2019
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