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Gay man above 50 years old, who actively seeks out young, cute guys in the more upscale environments: art shows, charity events, private parties at posh hotel bars.

Like his female counterpart, the Cougar, the Gayguar believes his dashing looks, cunning sexual skills, and ability to work the room will attract his prey.

As the MILF brought upon the Cougar (previously known as the spinster), the Gayguar is now finding a home in the nightlife culture.
There's a gayguar checking Tom out over by the silent auction tables!

Tuesday night, that hotel bar is just full of gayguars looking to be fed!

That Versace sale will be a hot spot to meet all those hot gayguars!
Gayguar by Jdallasguy August 23, 2009
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gaygardier 

Combined from the words bombadier and gay, refers to the person on top after having an accident when 2 men are having gay sex in a cowboy position.
I wouldn't fuck that gaygardier with your dick.

That gaygardier shit all over me last night.
gaygardier by dikforeU April 25, 2010
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gaygiarize

Gaygiarize means to plagiarize, to take or use intellectual property of a homosexual without permission.

Doug Dannger, a regular guest of the Phil Hendrie Show and self-described gay man and a gay journalist, introduced the term on April 30, 2009.
Doug:
"I am a gay man and a gay journalist, and you stole my idea. You gaygiarized me."
gaygiarize by DougDannger May 5, 2009
In the context of an online videogame, a Gaygar is a person and/or people who often verbally assault other individuals after beating them in a certain competitive or casual game using cheats/exploits, disrespectfull strategies or overpowered tools to help them achieve the victorious result. These players are often able to be beaten quite easily by more skilled/experienced individuals. One earns the right to call someone a Gaygar after beating them in a player to player engagement while the defeated person has been confirmed to be disrespectfull.
"Oh bro, that Jonas165 guy is such a Gaygar, he camps all game!"
Gaygar by Mauskator March 22, 2021

Gaygiarism 

is the use or close imitation of the language and thoughts of another gay author as one's own original work.
I was going to tell that story about Jason getting picked up on by that gay guy, but Phil beat me to it! thats Gaygiarism!
Gaygiarism by soggydoo April 30, 2009

Gaygar counter

A device for measuring gaydiation; similar to gaydar, but used to measure flamboyant (i.e. dangerous) gayness rather than to subtly distinguish those in the closet from metrosexuals.
Man, my gaygar counter is going crazy. Your gaydiation levels are off the charts.
Gaygar counter by qchu February 8, 2009
Gaguar is a synoym of cougar, usually referred to when giving head. Cougar meaning an older attractive female who dates men younger than their age range.
"This MILF I saw the other night head great head game. She was a real gaguar.
gaguar by lowkey_antisocial_ June 23, 2019
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Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

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"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
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Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
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murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

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DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
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