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victimizer 

Someone who was rude, dishonest or a dick to someone and when someone calls them out for it they will come up with a bullshit claim too make them look like the victim so they will be supported and the actual victim will be disregarded and treated like the bad guy by their peers.
"But I thought she bullied that kid why is the kid being treated badly? She's a victimizer that is why."
victimizer by fuge5407 April 9, 2021

Victim/Victimizer Narrative 

And it's funny that Jordan is obsessed with saying it's the wrong narrative when...
Hym "The Victim/Victimizer Narrative is the fuel that drives the conservative media infrastructure. 'We are the perpetual victims of censorship and are fighting that explicitly' but IN REALITY the EXACT OPPOSITE is the case. There is no coalition trying to silence them. They are the coalition. I'm the one being silenced. It isn't misinformation. It's a complete inversion of what is actually happening + current events. And the democrats AND THE PROGRESSIVE MEDIA... Are absolute garbage for allowing them to do it. All your bloviating about hate is meaningless when you're citizens are BURNING ALIVE AND DYING PERFECTLY PREVENTABLE DEATHS. I don't have to like any of you cocksuckers for any reason. And my situation is extreme and requires an extreme voice. This is and always has been absolutely necessary. The reason you will not face me is and always has been that when I articulate what has been happening to me it sounds like a psyop and if it has been signed off on by government officials their careers are over forever. I'm working at a gas station so Tulsi Gabbard doesn't have to. And I'm not going to let you get away with it. Trump was tight about the media being the enemy of the people it just also applies to the online media as well."

Victim vs Victimizer narrative

That's not what is actually happening though.
Hym "It isn't a victim vs victimizer narrative. That is clearly not what's happening here. It's NARRATIVE vs WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED. It's not even epistemology vs ontology anymore. It's Jordan Peterson's imaginary interpretation of events vs the things that actually happened in reality."

self victimizing 

When a dumb ass put him or herself up as a victim or puts themselves in a situation as to which they are victim of.
I am a dumb ass and like to start drama and put myself in self victimizing situations.

victimized 

to be in the same room someone is having sex in when you are unaware of the situation.
Girl 1: "did you hear? Bob and Sue had sex last night at her house party."
Girl 2: "I fell asleep in the same room as Sue!!"
Girl 1: "Ohhh mannn, you got victimized!'
victimized by warning147 June 25, 2009

Victimized 

The word that is used to rub it in someones face after they have been geesed.
example 1 - Ray Lewis murdering Mike Vick
Lewis, "AWWWW, you just got victimized son."

example 2 - Student A Victimizing Student B and Student C confirms it.
Student A - "yo' momma's so fat, she got hit by a parked car"
Student B - "Ohh yea, well....uh..."
Student C - "Awwww snap, you just got victimized tinkerbel"
Victimized by Mike L. November 10, 2004
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
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The number of years you are still sexually active
While our lifespan is the number of years we will live, our healthspan is the number of healthy years we will have and our sexspan is is the number of years we will continue to be healthy enough to continue having an active sex life.
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You didn't get any napkins with your takeout pork fried rice? Womp womp.
womp by 175623226 November 3, 2011
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Wife’s boyfriend: You have 5 more minutes
Me: Poggers!
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Oblication 

A vacation, feeling more like an obligation, that involves visiting or staying with family.
So Joe where are you taking the kids for spring break vacation? We are going on an oblication to Boca to visit my mother-in-law.
Oblication by kimmerr May 5, 2011
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