When you are about to serve a restraining on your
significant other, therefore, are preparing to not have sex readily
available, if at all, so you have the person serving the order wait outside (car, next door, etc.) so you can get in one last quickie before it goes down, and afterwards you walk
out the door and the server hands them the order. (Unbeknownst to them that the person being served has just been completely used for sole purpose of sex.) They usually give that person 30 minutes to grab some things and get out until the set court hearing .