Skip to main content
Urban Dictionary Merch
Your favorite words on things you can wear, drink from, read, or give to a friend.
The Urban Dictionary Store sells gifts you’ll have to explain.

Maladaptive Daydreaming 

A term used to describe some or all of the following symptoms:

- Excessive daydreaming, to the point where one cannot, or has difficulties with, functioning properly in real life

- Purposeful removal of oneself from situations that interrupt, prevent or otherwise disrupt daydreaming

- Creation of various storylines within daydreams, usually filling the holes in one’s own life (arousal, feeling of purpose, heroism, a social life, etc.)

- Tiredness (often caused by preventing oneself from sleeping so there is more time to daydream)

- Inability, or hindered ability, to maintain focus on real life scenarios in favor of daydreaming

Maladaptive Daydreaming is often associated with other, official terms, such as depression, ADHD, PTSD, schizophrenia and more.

There is no prescription to take in order to solve maladaptive daydreaming. The best solution is to seek professional therapy. Therapy isn’t as scary as it sounds; they ask what the problem is, and then work with you to develop a solution. They will never judge you, and have several degrees on how to deal with these kinds of situations. If therapy is not an option, alternative solutions would be to create a vent for your ideas and desires to flow into (keeping a journal, sharing ideas with friends, achieving real life goals, etc.).

If you searched this because you think you have maladaptive daydreaming, please don’t ignore it. It can ruin your life.
“I think I have maladaptive daydreaming....”
A fun, outgoing girl. Doesnt belong to a certain crowd. She could care less whether you like her or not. She has an amazing personality and can make anyone laugh. Usually very pretty and is a great, loyal friend. Anyone would be lucky to have her as a friend.
wow, im so glad im friends with MaLaney.
MaLaney by A-Balla 2010 November 18, 2009

Mayadere 

In anime, or manga, they are characters who begin the series as an antagonist. A mayadere will fall in love with the main character, but that doesn't mean they will switch sides, and are willing the kill their love interest if they feel betrayed.
An example of this is a specific character in Akame Ga Kill, her name is Esdeath, and you should watch that anime.

Weeb1: "NE NE, Watashi Wa Think That One Waifu From (insert-anime-that-has-{loli}), Is Kawaii..."
Weeb2: "Nani? Omae Wa Gay~desu, Watashi Only Go For Evil Waifus..."
Weeb1: "Anata Wa Mean A Mayadere?"
(TRANSLATION)
Degenerate1: "Hey Hey, I Think That That One (false-2d-girl) Waifu From (insert-anime-that-has-(an-underaged-girl)), Is Cute..."
Degenerate2: "What? You're Gay, I Only Go For Evil (false-2d-girls) Waifus..."
Degenerate1: "Do You Mean A Mayadere?"
Mayadere by AnonymousUser177013 January 28, 2019

New Malden 

A pretty awesome place where the largest population of Koreans live, outside Korea
Guy 1: Hey, im going to New Malden!

Guy 2: No way dude - that's cool! Try not to get trampled by Koreans mind..
New Malden by Rosiieee August 24, 2009

Karl Malden 

A Vodka Soda with ice.
What would you like with your supper? I'll have a Karl Malden.
Karl Malden by King Festus September 26, 2005
MadaDei (also TobiDei) is a name for the Naruto slash pairing MadaraxDeidara. This pairing came from the manga's revelation of Tobi's true identity.

This pairing mainly comes from Tobi and Deidara being partners in the Akatsuki, and even though Deidara died before Tobi's identity was revealed, there's still several fanfics.

If you search one of the pairings, you'll probably find more results by searching "TobiDei"

In hardcore yaoi fanfictions, Madara/Tobi is normally shown as the seme, with him being taller, older, and generally stronger than Deidara.

This pairing isn't as popular as SasoDei, but it's slowly climbing it's way to the top.
"MadaDei FTW!"
"What?"
"TobiDei. God, read the manga."
MadaDei by Lilyyan May 1, 2010
More from Urban Dictionary

You met me at a very Chinese time in my life

A moment in time where you feel distinctly Chinese over all other things.
Dante: "I wish I could be Nigerian, but I can't because I'm Chinese. You met me at a very Chinese time in my life."
Word of the Day on September 25, 2026
Adjective. Used to describe persons who have adjusted or altered their lifestyle for environmental reasons. Crunchy persons tend to be politically strongly left-leaning and may be additionally but not exclusively categorized as vegetarians, vegans, eco-tarians, conservationists, environmentalists, neo-hippies, tree huggers, nature enthusiasts, etc.

Also used to describe establishments where alternative foods and products are sold, i.e. natural food stores.

Modified derivative of granola.
"I need more crunchy guys in my life. I'm so tired of dating preppy metrosexual assholes."

"I'm heading out to the crunchy store to pick up some fair trade chocolate and tea tree oil, do you need anything?"
crunchy by EBC July 11, 2007
Word of the Day on September 24, 2026
A group of people, typically women, searching through someone’s digital footprint in order to find more information about that person.
Susie wasn’t sure if her new Hinge match was a creep, so she assembled Galantir and they found out he used to post slurs on gaming forums.
Galantir by Ge-sus September 22, 2026
Word of the Day on September 23, 2026

murderhobo 

In a tabletop game, a murderhobo is a player who murders NPCs indiscriminately. This is normally derogatory, referring to a player who totally ignores quests, dialog, backstory, trade, world building etc.

The term is most common with Dungeons and Dragons, but it can be applied to most RPGs where the player is allowed to kill most quest-giving NPCs and NPC traders. E.g. Elder Scrolls, Fallout, Divinity original sin.
DM: The sad little orphan girl tugs at Steve's trenchcoat to get his attention, and ask for help saving her pet dog from...
Steve: I'd like to roll a strength check against strangling the orphan.
Dave: I call dibs on the dog.
DM: You murderhobos disgust me.
murderhobo by Loup&S September 9, 2021
Word of the Day on September 22, 2026
In sales terms, a whale is a prospect that is significantly larger than an organization’s average customer.

Whales are large and extremely difficult to close. Due to their immense size, they are highly sought-after.

A whale is typically identified at first by a whale hunter on the sales team, but often requires cross-discipline participation in order to close; this includes assistance from operations, engineering, creative, client success, and business development teams.
"Shit...the sales director chewed me out on the sales call this morning. He's totally pissed that I have nothing in my pipeline. I've been focused on this one whale for so long that I haven't had time to prospect for normal-sized deals."
Whale by FQ_GFY February 3, 2020
Word of the Day on September 21, 2026

Concrete cowboy 

A guy who thinks he's a country kinda guy, but in reality lives a comfortable city / suburban life.
Eugene: Look at that dude in the cowboy hat!
Todd: He's just a concrete cowboy.
Word of the Day on September 20, 2026
Next