Taking a picture of your hand holding whatever you (and a few friends if applicable) are drinking with your current setting in the background- e.g. beach, concert, sporting event, party, etc.
"Instead of another dumb selfie where your faces are all blocking the view of where you are, take a Hollanding picture."
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.