The snobbery and cockiness exhibited by some gay males; often though not exclusively coupled with a verbal
tone of patronization and highly exxagerated disdain for his surroundings (people, things), as well as general "nastiness". The
pretentious attitude expressed by the phrase, "I'm so fabulous, and you so aren't". Ironically exhibited by fags who aren't
even fabulous. The gay super-ego.
His fagitude got on my nerves. No matter what he was saying, it sounded like: "I'm so
fabulous and you
aren't, and its soooo
hard for fabulous me to live in this un-fabulous world".