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Gender Neutral replacement for "husband" or "wife".

Pulls from etymology of "husband", "hus" meaning 'house' and "bondi" meaning 'carer of' or 'head of'.

This definition is not only gender neutral, but eliminates the sexist history of the original terms "husband" and "wife".
Me and my cobondi are equal partners in our marriage!

I'd like to introduce you to my cobondi, Whitney.
cobondi by Whit.G January 20, 2024
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A wart found on the arses of jews.
"The doctor pulled down my pants and whipped off my coondis with a scalpel. He was truly a coondis basher!"
coondis by duane reed June 10, 2004
also spelled koondee, koondi, or coondee. It means butt or ass in tamil.
Don't make me kick your coondi!
coondi by pravizzle March 29, 2004

Coondingywop 

A person who is either extremely excited or just utterly clueless.
“Sashi stop being such a coondingywop!” Or
“Last night Emmerson was hopped up on some go-go juice acting like a complete coondingywop!”

coondick 

1.)Term used for yelling insults or obscenities at pedestrians from a moving vehicle. Generally, entertaining for the occupants of the vehicle, but not for the victims.

One may yell something along the lines of "NICE FACE UGLY!' at a lone pedestrian or "HEY LOOK!!! A PACK OF QUEERS!" at a group of pedistrians.

Origin: First used by a group of teenagers from Kendall, NY. The word coondick comes from the book Their Eyes Were Watching God, where it is used to refer to an alcoholic beverage of some sort.
I'm bored, lets go coondick tonight.
I want to go coondicking after the movie.

Bill is an excellent coondicker, he yells such funny things.
coondick by Day May 1, 2007

coondick 

A term used for bootleg moonshine or other alcohol, coined and used during the prohibition era of the 1930's. The reference was to the African American migrants who would illegally transport the stuff, sometimes in the crotch of their pants.
I'll share this bottle of coondick with ya'.
coondick by octagon38 March 29, 2010

cobondage 

Two or more characters share the same restraints in bondage (literally the same restraints). The characters are almost always restrained equally, unless they are not.

Cobondage implies that the characters are bound in a sexual way which could cause forced partners or just be plain erotic.

If characters are bound in a non-erotic fashion, than the characters are merely bound together or tied together.
They are in cobondage. Cobondage is so hot! The cobondage forces them to 69 with each other.
cobondage by Fieldofbunnys October 23, 2022
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Frothability 

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Soul digger

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"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."
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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
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No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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