Making a gesture to someone to “suck your dick“. Usually by bending your arm at a 45 degree angle with your handflat & moving it up & down. Either used by close friends as a sign of endearment, similar to a middle finger - or used by enemies as an insult, also similar to a middle finger. No in between.
I sawGreg driving by and he toofed me. I’m gonna fuck him up when I see him.
Man Billy was driving by and he toofed me, that joker always be toofing the homies.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.