Shit that never happened. By making up lurid tales designed to go viral activist types can spin a history of oppression in any scene, org, or society. Lived experience discounts
subjectivity or just being wrong and is usually brought up after someone's claims have been debunked.
It can also refer to
existential problems you do nothing about but blame others for: being poor, living in a ghetto shithole, being an addict, etc.
Like a lot of SJW jargon it was stolen from the CATT team where it refers to a failed
suicide attempt in post intervention care.