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Frame Control

Frame control is the little-known underlying phenomenon that dictates the outcome of every social interaction. It originates from the domain of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and how we humans categorize different situations into subjective psychological categories. A frame is an instrument you use to package your power, authority, strength, information and status. Almost all high-performance speakers use frame control to control the flow and outcome of a conversation.

It is, in essence, the act of imposing a mental/psychological viewpoint on any situation and forcing that situation to "conform" to that frame or belief. This is a fundamental component of self-motivation and social intelligence.

It generates an invisible energy field around you. The art of frame control requires unconscious conviction in your ideas as well as congruency between your intentions, speech patterns, and body language.

The art of frame control is most commonly used by PUA (pick up artist) and salesmen and is based on the laws of levels of consciousness.
Examples of basic PUA frame control:

Society frame: If a girl has sex with a lot of men, she is a slut.

Alpha male frame: Sex is healthy, normal, fun and a win-win for the girl and me. She wants to have sex with me so she can make a decision if we are a good fit for each other based off our chemistry.
Frame Control by handlez October 26, 2022
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The Art Of Frame Control 

The nature of reality is inherently ambiguous and is open to various interpretations. Gaining a greater degree of control over one's internal and external psychology is the most important factor in increasing one's level of success in all aspects of life. The collective congruency between your internal self and your external results is a Frame. Whoever is more confident in their interpretation will be able to control everyone's interpretations around them, this is known as The Art of Frame Control. Whatever man knows frame control will be able to gain the upper hand in any social situation, whether they are trying to land a big deal, convince their spouse to get on board with a decision, or pick up a hot date.

Josh King Madrid, better known as JetSet or JetSetFly wrote a book called The Art Of Frame Control after writing JETSET Life Hacks.
Billy: I can't find anyone who wants to buy my products and girls never pay me any attention. I been working on my mindset and it's not working. I've tried everything... Josh King Madrid teach me the jet set way so I can level up & live the jetset life too.

JetSetFly: Stop trying so hard and just use The Art Of Frame Control and it will happen automatically and effortlessly.

Dr David Hawkins: That is a fact at 499 LOC, Oh Lord. **Calibrates the LOC of josh king madrid's statement with muscle testing**

2 weeks later:
Billy: I'm now a multi-millionaire with 4 hot girlfriends, thanks for teaching me the art of frame control. The Jet Set Way truly is the only way.
JetSetFly: Makes a lot of sense.
The Art Of Frame Control by piaheza September 29, 2022

Fameless 

A person who is famously infamous and has no shame about it.
My friend Kat is fameless. She does her own thang, and don't give a f___.

Everybody knows "Kat" she's fameless for giving no effs.

seconds per frame 

seconds per frame (spf) is used when talking about the performance of a potato in gaming
Tom: Damn, Cold War is running amazing on my new PC, 60 fps at 4K!
Dan: Woah, that's amazing, my potato is doing 60 seconds per frame.
seconds per frame by dragonbgn January 21, 2021
Is used to describe the quickness/hastiness of an action. In videos games, a hitbox appears at some point during a character's attack animation. Some attacks charge-up or go through several frames before the attack lands. Frame 1 is the quickest point at which an attack can come out causing instant damage and usually stun-locking. If a person says they are doing something "frame 1" it means they are doing it instantly.
When Cyberpunk 2077 goes on preorder, you know we preordering FRAME 1!
frame 1 by uninspiredradio July 10, 2019

frame fuck 

During the process of film editing, show runners, head writers, and the like, can, and very often do, focus on miniscule details in a large project. These minor changes will have no overall effect in how the finished product is received by the intended audience, nor does it necessarily make the finished film any better. However it does allow a valve for overactive Ego's to vent. Once the generally non creative individual "puts their stamp" on the project, the rest of us can go about the business of actually getting the work done and meeting our air dates.
I could frame fuck this sequence all night, fact of the matter is, nobody gives a shit when the character blinks. If they are watching him blink, the scene is a failure. You moron.
frame fuck by Brold July 20, 2009
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briefcake 

"Did you check out the briefcake in courtroom C?"
briefcake by Ben Frey April 6, 2006
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Along with Nixon’s other ratfuckers, Roger Stone caused fights at otherwise peaceful Democratic Party protests to generate a false narrative that the Democrats were violent and dangerous.
Ratfucker by Ricky Ramjet November 2, 2017
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countrypolitan 

Term used to describe someone who is a mix of both rural (country) and urban (metropolitan) lifestyles/upbringings. He/she is typically equally comfortable in both settings and is able to seamlessly slip back and forth between the two, appreciating the characteristics of each.
That ol' gal of mine drives the 12 lane freeway during the week and a John Deere on the weekends. She likes opra and the Grand Ol' Opry. I love them countrypolitan women.
countrypolitan by MOChick November 7, 2006
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Witch Bath 

A bath consisting of a variety of slats, oils, soaps or any other added ingredients such as fruits, milks, herbs or any other spices for health or beautifying benifits.
She brought home alot of stuff and took it to the bathroom. She must be taking a witch bath.
Witch Bath by carnieboy30 October 26, 2020
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kinktober 

An excuse for people to write porn with different types of kinks throughout the month of October.

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That chick doesn't write often but when she does, its for Kinktober.
kinktober by Kinkiest July 12, 2018
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proper lad 

a lad that is such a lad that he is a proper lad
person1:did you see bob
person2: ya he was a proper lad
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