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Feminocity

The state of mind, or essence, often impenetrable of an individual who is confident in their femininity
“I watched her snake a clogged drain while wearing a thong and lipgloss; the feminocity in that bathroom was unmatched.”
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toxic feminity 

It's a set of beliefs held by unscrupulous women that are used to oppress men & womens opinion in order to control the narrative of a debate.

1. a women's opinion: feelings & loud emotion outweigh fact for merely being abstinence and unyielding to examination.

2. victim : all women are victims even if they aren't, if a women has had a bad day they all have, they share everyone's mistakes no matter who's fault

3. sexually harassed: since a woman's natural curves are idealized by media any unwanted attention is harassment, it is upto men to know or be accused of harassment without proof or cause.

4.Hypergammy: women are not bound by Morals and should not be penalized,its okay to use a person for gain and that they should move onto the next man when they have taken all they can

5. They deserve more: women should be given status and wealth for being a women, instead of earning it and showing competence in the area of expertise

6. Reverse sexism: the act of being nonsexist by blaming the other sex for thier failings instead of looking inward and growing, instead of hating the other sex they claim oppression

7. False patronage: using others to bolster thier own prominence even if they consider them a lower class, as long as they can use them and the ones being used don't defy their opinions or popularity. Racism is ok if no one knows about it.

8. Expectations: putting expectations on others that they do not put on their selves, they deserve more and all others deserve less
Her opinion went against all facts but was cheered on for its pure uncaring of others and it's false righteous tone, the use of toxic feminity was on display for applause of the unknowing crowd
toxic feminity by meritfirst January 20, 2019

Toxic feminity 

While toxic masculinity is direct, aggressive and loud, toxic femininity is more indirect, passive and quiet.

Toxic feminity is when a female passively, indirectly uses her sexuality, or excessive empathy, or woman card, or manipulative tricks to gain power/social status/money/attention or just to lead people to do something for her.

These will be done in a very passive, indirect, silent manner which makes it difficult to prove when confronted.
Examples:
1. Sexuality: (a) Indirect sexual teasing via texts or social media or touching others in a sensual manner. And when you say don't do it, their usual reply is: "I didn't intend that", "Why do you think like that", "felt something?" etc.
2. Excessive Empathy: (a) Crying furiously until you do something. (b) Faking emotions to get something.
3. Woman Card: (a) Blaming patriarchy for her incompetence.
4. Misc.: (a) Belittling others or shaming them out of jealousy. (b) Body shaming other females. (c) Constantly trying to one-up others even in casual sittings. (d) Gossip, smear campaigns.

It is done in a way that confronting, calling out, proving it becomes difficult and if you are a male then puts you in a bad light.

How to deal with them:
1. Avoid at all cost. If you have already got in deep then "passively" cut ties. By ignoring, keeping replies short and never asking them for something or initiating conversation.
2. They want you to fight back. So dont. Hold your dignity and move on, they hate it a lot.
You are such a gold digger girl! Keep your toxic feminity with yourself.
Toxic feminity by netflexes May 6, 2020

Toxic Feminicity

A Plural word for Toxic femininity - To be a toxic feminist
Kanye: I don't understand why they had to be that aggressive

Marta: It's toxic Feminicity
Toxic Feminicity by Kstackz October 20, 2020

femininity 

Individual characteristic of being, practicing and appearing feminine.
...as Vince was calling her a tomboy, Miri was afraid of losing her femininity. - Book of Tinderloving 3:14
femininity by Longii June 30, 2014

feminality 

Having female characteristics (something lacking in many crossfit women).
Dude, that guy has more Feminality than most of the girls doing this WOD.

Toxic femininity

A social science term that describes narrow repressive type of ideas about the female gender role, that defines femininity as exaggerated femininity

Holding or embracing traditional feminine attributes like empathy, passivity, patience and tenderness in order to prioritise caring for others to the detriment of their own health while minimising their own struggles.
She always puts her husbands feelings first and it’s really taking a toll on her mental health, I told her she could tell him he also has to change his attitude to save their relationship but she called me a cold woman for even suggesting that. Toxic femininity at its finest
Toxic femininity by internet Emiko December 21, 2020
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And dying in yo' bed many years from now, would ya be willing ta trade all da days from dis here day ta dat fo' one chance, just one chance, ta come back here as young men an' tell our enemies dat dey may take our lives but dey will never take our freedom ... YUB NUB!
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2. Used usally as a close friend in hip-hop slang.
1. Wanna get dirrty
It's about time that I came to start the party Sweat drippin' over my body
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Coyote Ugly

1. Place

The Bar came before the movie. It is an awesome bar where the girls know how to party and make you feel okay about giving up your money, drawers, bras, and dignity.

2. Movie

A story about a Jersey girl following her dreams, aided by working at this bar in New York.

3. Situation/Person/Decision

See other definitions - waking up next to someone so ugly you'd rather chew your arm off than wake them up.
1. Yo, Coyote Ugly is my favorite bar! I got whipped, stripped, drunk, and danced on the bar all before 7 o'clock!

2. Hey did you see Coyote Ugly? It actually has a plot!

3. Ugg I woke up to Coyote Ugly this morning!
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Literally 1984 

Used in response for when someone promotes/advocates an event or idea that is perceived to support "too much" authority and/or government control.

Often used jokingly as a over-exaggeration in political talk.

Can also be used in response to a ban or mute in a forum site or online chat.
Steve: I think that the government should regulate businesses more
Bob: Literally 1984!

--User1 has been permantly banned--
User2: You cant ban my friend like that! Literally 1984!
Literally 1984 by ke1 July 7, 2021
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Back when I lived in upstate new york 

A meaningless, unimpressive, self-serving introduction. An indicator that the story about to be shared will be pointless and dumb.
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Sister: This meeting was to discuss the rough draft of my essay, where we discussed the subsidiary questions I added in my rough draft. We also discussed the relationship between my main title and the real-life situations I chose to use in my essay. We discussed the structure of my essay as well, specifically the Math AOK section and how it relates to the contradiction of the title. This second meeting was particularly helpful in discussing the implications of my essay claims and how to apply the title across various areas of knowledge. There were many sections of the essay that could have been cut down in wordiness and the ways of knowing required further and more in-depth analysis.

Me: Woah! TLDU!
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