by Jessica Kelsey and angie July 6, 2004
Get the fembers mug.Fember (noun, slang) A derogatory or pejorative term used online to refer to people who express attraction toward or admiration for femboys (typically young men or boys with feminine appearance or mannerisms).
The word is typically used jokingly in online or casual conversations and is not considered a formal or widely recognized term. Depending on context and tone, it may be taken as lighthearted banter or, in other settings, as offensive.
The word is typically used jokingly in online or casual conversations and is not considered a formal or widely recognized term. Depending on context and tone, it may be taken as lighthearted banter or, in other settings, as offensive.
“He jokingly called himself a fember after realizing half his favorite characters were femboys.”
“Online, some people try to reclaim fember as a badge of pride instead of an insult!"
"Yes, I'm a Fember..."
“Online, some people try to reclaim fember as a badge of pride instead of an insult!"
"Yes, I'm a Fember..."
by Ichikafan October 6, 2025
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