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Fember (noun, slang) A derogatory or pejorative term used online to refer to people who express attraction toward or admiration for femboys (typically young men or boys with feminine appearance or mannerisms).

The word is typically used jokingly in online or casual conversations and is not considered a formal or widely recognized term. Depending on context and tone, it may be taken as lighthearted banter or, in other settings, as offensive.
“He jokingly called himself a fember after realizing half his favorite characters were femboys.”
“Online, some people try to reclaim fember as a badge of pride instead of an insult!"
"Yes, I'm a Fember..."
Fember by Ichikafan October 6, 2025
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To blow a a fart noise with your mouth on someone's skin.
Things were getting too serious with my girlfriend so I ferberted her belly to make her laugh.
Ferbert by Ferlin September 22, 2012
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femherroid 

A feminist male or female who is generally a pain in the ass both online and in real life. They are in a constant state of self imagined oppression and victimhood, and refuse to take on contradictory evidence that proves their blinkered views wrong. They are generally incaple of reasoned and logical debate of any kind and can often be seen online shouting "cishet scum", "patriarchy", "muh sonjany" and everyones favourite "rape apologist" to anyone who makes the mistake of trying to engage with them on any intellectual level.

Don't ask one out for a coffee in a lift, make a joke near them about dongles, offer them a go on a video game where you rescue a woman or tell them they are to fat to fit in an aircraft seat.
Sparty says he was debating online and a massive femherroid came out of nowhere and accused him of "mind rape" and "misogyny", but don't worry they think everything is misogyny
femherroid by sparty uafc June 25, 2014
The perfectly manicured eyebrows that you see alot of male metrosexuals and male media figures wearing.
Tom was embarrassed to find his buddy sporting a fembrow when they met at the club Friday night.
Fembrow by James Weyand August 8, 2006
A mischievous young girl (often sexually), frequently teasing, and poking fun at adults, the English equivalent of mesugaki/めすがき(mesu meaning female, and gaki meaning kid/child)
"My little sister is always purposefully wearing provocative clothes and teasing me, she's such a fembrat."
Fembrat by D@R3@10n3 June 23, 2022
1. A girl who is "like one of the guys" or cool to hang out with, but not in a sexual or romantic way.
We're playing football with some bros and fembros.
Fembro by Oswald McNasty October 7, 2003
A combination of "feminine" and "energy."

Femergy is the vibe in a room where there are mainly females present or a largely estrogen-centric feel.
One Female to Another: We need another sleep over party. There has been a serious lack of femergy in my life.

OR

Guy 1: Hey, my girlfriend's staring in "The Vagina Monologues." Anyway I can get you to suffer through it with me?
Guy 2: No way, dude! Way too much femergy in one room for me to handle!
Femergy by SEC89 March 28, 2010
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Frothability 

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Soul digger

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pod person 

A person pretending to be something they aren't, or an impostor. This is inferred because of the old alien movies where alien pods appear on earth and the "pod people" dispose of the humans and slowly reproduce the bodies, pretending to be humans.
The pod person was pretending to be my father, but I knew that he was an alien when he acted differently than my father ever would have.
pod person by Christopher M. May 9, 2005
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A dead drop is a location used to secretly pass items between two people, without requiring them to meet.

Spies have been known to use dead drops, using various techniques to hide the items and to signal that the drop has been made. Drug dealers use this as well.

A common place is to duct tape the item to the underside of a toilet cover in a public restroom.

A signal is sometimes used as well to indicate there is something to pickup, like a pile of stones in a certain formation. After checking the drop the signal is removed.
"The dead drop is the restroom toilet at the Gulf station at the corner of Commercial Ave. and Georges Rd."
dead drop by rubberroom July 23, 2008
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No Surprises Wedding

A "No Surprises Wedding," or NSW, is a wedding invitation designation that tells attendees that there can be no unplanned announcements, engagements, events or speeches at the wedding - all actions must be pre-approved by the couple. Anyone who performs an unapproved "surprise" will be asked to leave the wedding early.

This designation comes from Reddit, where so many stories of bad wedding behavior indicated a need to communicate expectations for the wedding behavior of attendees.
You are cordially invited to the nuptials of Brian and Tom on October 31 at noon.

Please note that this wedding is child-free (under 10) and a No Surprises Wedding (NSW). Reach out to wedding planner Sami Smith to request approvals or exceptions; please note that exceptions will be rare. Limited child care for under-10s will be available. All approvals will be noted and included in planning. Unapproved, or surprise exceptions, will result in guests being asked to leave.
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