When a girl who is friends with several members of a social fraternity hosts a party at the same time as one of said fraternity's off-campus pledge program events.
Brother 1: Who all is going camping next weekend?
Brother 2: You must be mustarded. No one is going. That event got esthered.
church hurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the church hurt that was inflicted on me as a child.