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This is me trying character 

Based on the song “this is me trying” by Taylor Swift it means somebody that has poor mental health and many set backs but continues to keep trying only to be met with more negative outcomes. The this is me trying character is often someone who feels like a liability.

example tv characters are:
Rue Bennett from Euphoria

Connell Waldron from Normal People

Nadine Franklin from Edge of Seventeen
I am definitely the this is me trying character

me trying to find who asked 

guy 1: i got a haircut yesterday
guy 2: me trying to find who asked

this is me trying 

the act of killing yourself, but more specifically, driving yourself off a cliff listening to “this is me trying” by taylor swift
“i have to go to school tomorrow. i want to this is me trying myself”
“i’ll join you”
this is me trying by tswizzleismymom November 29, 2021

Are you trying to help me grow a beard 

This is a process we’re you let a boy eat your coochie

STOP TRYING TO SELL ME MUGS 

THEY'RE USELESS,UGLY,DON'T HAVE A SENSE TO EXISTS,COST 32 DOLLARS(that's too much for a mug),AND I DON'T KNOW WHY THE URBAN DICTIONARY WANTS ME TO BUY THEM
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For trying to torturing me into apologizing

So you have been doing the same thing all along.
Hym "No not just murder someone and their family in a vacuum. For trying to torturing me into apologizing. Or contrition. However you want to put it. But this was not a smart idea engaging with this. And I am literally a Magical octopus assassin teacher in an anime when I say this 'CLASS!? This is why we don't engage in sadistic protracted half-measures.' Because then, the second the guy gets the upper hand, he's going to murder you and your family. Just like October 7th. If only genocide brought decapitated babies back to life... Everything would be wonderful forever!"
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Slop Grenade

When someone uses AI to generate a large document, slide deck, or piece of code/software and tosses it over the fence for you to deal with.
Chad: Hey Brent I sent you the new backend API change to review, it’s only 100 files changed.

Brent: he just tossed me a slop grenade
Slop Grenade by Joe Squid September 28, 2026
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After we broke up, he was floxi to me.
floxi by Dr. Geek May 13, 2009
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NYC people who migrate north to Quahog, RI to see the leaves in the fall.
New York and everyone from there can fornicate themselves with an iron stick.
leafers by ss++ February 8, 2005
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Respectfully 

Precedes or follows either a gratuitously disrespectful or honest remark, originated in New York City. Used in similar fashion to "no offense" or "to be honest," interchangeably.
Ya mans is wild buns, respectfully. Respectfully he's washed.

After school, The Modells on Jamaica Ave was active. Respectfully.
Respectfully by john quan the first December 20, 2020
Word of the Day on September 26, 2026
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