to’em 

Southern way to say “to him” or “to them”
(both sound the same when you say it)

(to’em used for a “him”): He’s got a nice look to’em, must get all the ladies swoonin’.”

(to’em used for “them”): I ain’t sure ‘bout them ladies over there bud... They got that crazy look to’em.)

to’em by Somecountrychick July 15, 2022

Talk to 'em 

Slang for Talk to them/him/her. This is said to a peer when you are encouraging them to speak their mind to someone.

Joe: Hey Tim, quit being so annoying.

Friend of Joe: Talk to 'em!

Talk to 'em by RDonde March 28, 2013

had to do it to em' 

Used when a person does something so fly or unexpected, they need to reassure bystanders that said action didn't occur simply by chance, but out of habit. See don't hurt em.

John: "Damn hami, did you just have sex with all three of those triplets?"
Hamilton: "Actually only two, the third was taking care of my laundry, had to do it to em'."

Drake: "It's the first time I've smoked in like three months, sorry mom, had to do it to em'"

had to do it to em' by BA612 January 7, 2010

You know I had to do it to em 

A meme originating from over-the-top flexing, usually in relation to ones outfit or style.

Hypebeast #1 - Bro, how you going to show up to graduation wearing a jean jacket, jean-shorts combo?

Hypebeast #2 - You know I had to do it to em.

You know I had to do it to em by 🐺 November 18, 2020

you know he had to do it to em 

when a white guy from florida decides to hit all his viewers with his “swagger” with a majestic pose holding his knuckles and finding a way into your girl’s heart

can be also used as a compliment on someone’s picture or as an insult (you can never really tell it apart though)

A: yo did you see that kid’s post from florida where he lookin fly as balls?

B: yeah man, you know he had to do it to em

you know he had to do it to em by theleslor May 20, 2018

Talk to em bankroll 

Term popularized by rapper “talk2embankroll” meaning when someone was talking tough before, but now their silent when they are losing

Tre: you was talkin tuff before what happened
Don: I don’t know you won ig
Tre: TALK TO EM BANKROLL

Talk to em bankroll by Yuh Digg January 17, 2020

You Know I Had To Do It To Em 

When you do it to em and you know you had to.

Mike Hunt: Yo bro why'd you have to vibe check Dixie Normus and Yuri Tarded?
Moe Leicester: You know I had to do it to em.

You Know I Had To Do It To Em by Horny Nigga Laundry Basket 34 November 13, 2019