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the gays 

(n); double-stack of pillows usually glued tightly together because of overuse; never separated and always together one on top of the other, like a gay couple
related to the "three sisters" group of pillows found on my fiance's side of the bed.
Jordan: I have had it with the three sisters. They take up the whole bed. Move your lesbian pillow pack
Spence: Oh you and the gays be quiet.
the gays by jsobs January 27, 2010

the girls and the gays

I do it for the girls and the gays, thats it😌💅
person 1: why did I make this and add it to the site?
person 2: because you did it for the girls and the gays!! lets goooooo

Queen of the gays 

Carly Rae Jepsen is the current title owner.

Her album E•MO•TION solidified her authority.

There are no other people who currently have claim to this honor.

Previous monarchs include Saint Sebastian, Judy Garland, Madonna, Marilyn Monroe, Donna Summer, Janet Jackson, Lady Gaga.

There are many gay icons, but the Queen of each era stand above the others.

Its highly unlikely that Carly Rae Jepsen will be dethroned any time soon.
Carly Rae Jepsen is Queen of the gays
Queen of the gays by charlespry January 10, 2018

Queen of the gays 

The official title of Carly Rae Jepsen
Carly Rae Jepsen is Queen of the gays
Queen of the gays by charlespry January 11, 2018

word of the gays 

When a classic word of the day is crappy and you feel like you have wasted several minutes reading it, and you know you will never use it.
driver's arm, cubicle speed and overvite are the most recent words of the day, but in reality they are considered by the public to be word of the gays
word of the gays by jbn May 31, 2007

Queen of the Gays 

A term used for a woman in celebrity culture who gay/queer people identify heavily with and adore/defend because of said identification. Sometimes often impersonated by drag queens as well.

Joan Rivers (among many others such as Judy Garland, Janet Jackson, Lady Gaga, Beyoncé Knowles, Britney Spears, and Betty White) is often attributed to this title. As her comedy, charity work with AIDS and suicide survivors (which disproportionately have affected gay people), and overall support for the gay community has lived on after her passing. She was one of the first celebrities to speak against the AIDS crisis in support of gay people.
Joan Rivers is the self proclaimed queen of the gays!
Queen of the Gays by prima-vera August 18, 2022
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Pee Calculus

When you have to pee in a movie but don’t want to miss anything, and must do the following mental equation: will the amount I have to pee cause enough discomfort to diminish my attention capacity for the remainder of the movie to an extent which is greater than the amount of the movie I would miss by making a mad dash to the restroom.
I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
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Literally "dirty" pronounced with a West Indian accent. Can also have a positive connotation, for example Sean Paul's album title "Dutty Rock".
"The girl is pretty but she corrupt and dutty!"

or, in a positive usage:

"Booya! That freestyle was dutty!"
Dutty by J Hall April 3, 2003
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Ajumma wait a moment
Ajumma by aintnotinbutnice July 5, 2009
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Slop Grenade

When someone uses AI to generate a large document, slide deck, or piece of code/software and tosses it over the fence for you to deal with.
Chad: Hey Brent I sent you the new backend API change to review, it’s only 100 files changed.

Brent: he just tossed me a slop grenade
Slop Grenade by Joe Squid September 28, 2026
Word of the Day on September 29, 2026
Short-hand for the word floccinaucinihilipilification, meaning the estimation of something as valueless (encountered mainly as an example of one of the longest words in the English language).
After we broke up, he was floxi to me.
floxi by Dr. Geek May 13, 2009
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