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When a single heterosexual male and his single heterosexual female friend go out somewhere (a movie, dinner, etc.).

The male is interested in dating the female but hasn't worked up the courage to tell her yet.

The female thinks they are going as friends.
Guy #1: How did your date with Tina go yesterday?
Guy #2: Oh, it was a nondate since she thought more people were coming.
nondate by klert December 31, 2008
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1. non-committal meetup between hypothetically single people, during non-date-night times
2. coffee, lunch, after dinner drinks, hanging out after class, chillaxin
3. meeting up after the appropriate amount of pre-screening online flirting or vaguely sexy textversations
4. pre-cursor to a hookup, not to be confused with a booty call
Irina kept texting Francis to see about grabbing drinks after work some time, but they both kept flaking out on the nondate
nondate by goddess bertha December 24, 2007

Nonhategious

Nonhategious, means that you don't hate other people of any means or what other people like
Girl: I hope you would not hate me for this...
Boy: Of course not! I am nonhategious!
Nonhategious by IdrisZeRoadman February 23, 2021

Non-Date 

It is basically dating without the entitlement. There is no pressure, yet at the same time, both non-daters refuse to flirt with others. Often a precursor to dating.
"I thought Alexa and Graham were dating."

"No, right now they are gonna non-date. After all, who needs all that pressure."
Non-Date by ztothen22 October 14, 2008

nondating 

Doing date activities with a friend of the opposite sex to avoid actually having to date someone.

To the unaware third party observer the pair looks like they are together.

Similar to "friendzone" but more positive because neither party wants a romantic or sexual relationship.
"I heard you and Jane went to a nice dinner and a concert together, are you two dating?"
"No, she is just a cool girl to hangout with so we are just nondating"
nondating by ActionNoah January 26, 2014
The art of bondage without restraints... e.g. mindfuck!
S&M is so last year... Nondage is the new black! ;)
Nondage by charmingnyc June 2, 2008
To go out on a date to nando's.
I took my future wife on a nandate last night.
nandate by jaer's September 27, 2011
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