A lollipop ass nigga, is a sarcastic slang combination used mostly by African American females, for a man that acts like or exhibits females bitchy qualities.
Acts like a messy female
Is a feminine ass male.
His ass acts like a female.
Weak ass easily misled man
A messy ass man.
Always in somebody else's business
A person you hate intensely not because they deserve such hatred but because they serve as a focus for your general hatred. A healthy way to dispense with excess animosity.
Jake's not really that big an asshole. He just serves as my hate sink.