insticiting 

a combination of instigating and inciting, particularly in a fight or argument.

of course, the two are pretty much the same thing, but if you're insticiting, not only do you get the fighters revved up, but you also continue to egg them on as they feud. if you're trying to get people in trouble, or want someone to hurt someone for you, insticiting is for you!

Laura and Shawna, too scared to handle their own problems, insticited a fight between two girls, although the two girls seemed to be friends. insticiting caused the battle to commence.

insticiting by h4_c3_h5_p3 May 3, 2010

Instibating 

The act of trying to get someone else to masturbate

Jason is a fuckin freak. Walks around talking about watching star wars porn and light sabers and was even instibating

Instibating by Altuck September 12, 2010

Instigating enabler(s)

When a person not only pushes one to do something, but supports it in every way. Even if it means helping them get the drugs. A reverse "friend".

Tony: Hey man, you should do some drugs.

Donny: No man.

Tony: I'll go get it for you. Come on, please man--you know you want to--It's just drugs.

Donny: No. I don't want to do drugs.

Tony: Here, I'm calling him right now.

Donny: No.

Tony: What if two hot chicks with big boobs came in and had two line cut out across their tits and said do these lines off our large breasteses, would you do it then?

Donny: Maybe... yeah, probably.

Tony: So you're saying there's a chance?

Donny: Yeah.

Tony: Okay I'm calling him, where doings some drugs.

Andy: Donny, do some fucking drugs!

Donny: Okay.

... Instigating enabler(s)

Instigating enabler(s) by Friends of Ridicule August 11, 2011

Instigating 

Ariyah

Ariyah : Here y’all go 🚶🏾 ♂️
Everyone else : Here she go instigating

Instigating by shakifjd September 15, 2020

Instigating fuckery 

When someone or something instigates foul nonsense bullshit to the point of receiving backlash and payback but nobody really wins.

Jeff stop fucking with Tara, Tara stop engaging with Jeff or he’ll never stop.

Jason “I’ve had it with this instigating fuckery.”

Instigating fuckery by TaraRae82 January 2, 2023