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•Someone who doesn't understand why they're in love with you, i.e.
•A relationship with someone with amnesia
•When someone or some people act like a couple when in reality they aren’t
Ex.
“how did this happen???”
“We’re together???”
“I think we may be dating…”
"I guess we're meant to be??"

Key characteristics: confused looks, asking what your name is again, being resigned to being with you, struck by Cupid's arrow in a way, arranged, keep jumping between friendzone-ing you and dating.
“Uh, I think we’re together.”-A Howdere
“She’s a Howdere, I just know it
“How are my best friends’ are not dating???they are both such a Howdere.”
Howdere by YuyuandYuri April 21, 2022
Related Words
hot + bothered; when a man/women turns you on sexually; sexually excited, sexually aroused, sexually stimulated.
Joe gets me all hothered when he takes his shirt off.
hothered by aerin liz January 18, 2009

Ho-where? 

to describe when something isnt going anywhere and it has no potential to improve in life
Mang, hows the party so far?

This party's going Ho-where
Ho-where? by Rhyno June 6, 2003