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Defeatist 

Expecting defeat and accepting defeat are two different things. Tapping out is accepting defeat, and if someone hasn't done that with you, they haven't accepted defeat by you or surrendered anything to you.
A defeatist is somebody that gives up.

defeatist danny 

A friend who is a punk ass bitch that always puts a negative outlook on every situation.
Friend 1: Hey, I'm going to throw the biggest graduation party yall ever seen.
Friend 2: Dude you can't afford that shit, you still got a bunch of student loans you still owe.
Friend 1: Why you always got to be a defeatist danny? Shut the fuck up.

aggro-defeatist 

A overly aggressive externalization of frustration (typically verbal on social media) in the face of imminent defeat that contributes nothing towards improving the odds.
She went on an aggro-defeatist rant shaking her fists while wearing her women's march pink hat saying: "AARGH!!! Rowe v Wade will be overturned!! The world is going to sh*t!!! This is all Bernie, Trump, RBG, Biden, and Republican's fault. I hate the world!!!"
aggro-defeatist by p.diddy. May 3, 2022

armchair defeatist 

The average "smart" ass who assumes constraints loudly. These people are everywhere and only seem to ever come up with reasons why something won't work, or how it doesn't apply to them, and therefore must not apply to anyone else.
I didn't listen to all the armchair defeatists, instead I made a quick prototype and made $1,200 in my first month.
armchair defeatist by batFalcon September 12, 2022

defetishtration 

1. When someone has a kink for kink shaming.
2. Being frustrated about losing a fetish.
"The defetishtration I experienced today got the better of me"
defetishtration by Creep3rion October 24, 2022

yeetus defeatus 

A amazing group of ppl that r gods of roblox and fortnite. Everyone in this group is hard and has £3 in their bank
"Come join yeetus defeatus"says Anna

"All ready have 20 secs ago" says conner
yeetus defeatus by Paatrick Laadz February 5, 2019
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A girl who does ballet and only talks about ballet. Her schedule is filled with dance classes which does not allow her to do any other activity.
"Hey, do you know that girl Sally?"

"Yeah, she's kind of annoying. All she ever talks about it ballet."

"Wow, what a Bunhead."

"Hey Sally, you want to hang out this weekend?"
"I can't, I have dance."
"You're such a Bunhead."

"Yeah... I know."
Bunhead by Jen00 October 24, 2014
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trucker's tan 

A sunburn or suntan focused on the left arm. It is caused by the left side of the body being the only half that gets exposed to sunlight while driving. Presumably, it would be located on the right side of the body in countries where they drive on the left side of the road.
I had a trucker's tan after driving for 10 straight hours on a sunny day.
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The phenomenon where adults salivate at children's toys
Every time I walk into the toy aisle, I catch myself kidulting over the latest action figures and LEGO sets!
kidulting by Emotional Cruiser October 12, 2025
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British slang for a scientist or technical expert, esp . when the speaker is not certain of the expert’s specific field of study. Not necessarily derogatory, but typically used by persons without a technical background. In the US, the equivalent would be “egghead”, “squint”, or “geek.”

Origin of the word is unknown. Started sometime in World War 2. Given the typical evolution of British slang, could easily have started because what these experts did was confusing or “baffling” to the common person.
According to the boffins downstairs, the murderer used a serrated blade.
Boffin by Agnon February 11, 2023
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Pee Calculus

When you have to pee in a movie but don’t want to miss anything, and must do the following mental equation: will the amount I have to pee cause enough discomfort to diminish my attention capacity for the remainder of the movie to an extent which is greater than the amount of the movie I would miss by making a mad dash to the restroom.
I saw Satantango last night, wonderful film but by the 5th hour I had to start doing pee calculus.
Pee Calculus by anorlondo October 1, 2026
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