We all know the word 'schadenfreude' for pleasure in another's pain or misfortune. Happily, there is an antonym for pleasure in another's pleasure or happiness: confelicity (Latin con- with + felicitas happiness)
Watching the kidsopen their Christmas presents filled me with confelicity.
churchhurt is where you experience a degree of distance, pain, or judgement from your church community. Essentially, you are just unable to “find your place”. This is prevalent in the Christian community, but can be extended to other religions.
Now that I am an adult I am beginning to heal from the churchhurt that was inflicted on me as a child.