aqueerplatonic 

not defying traditional differences between romantic/sexual and platonic relationships or attractions.

"Queerplatonic" is an orientation of people who are sustainably fulfillable in friendships that blur traditional platonic boundaries- usually people who are not desirous of an all-out traditional relationship.

"Aqueerplatonic" can either clarify a specific relationship or an individual's relational nature("orientation"), habits, or availability.

Also, I *think* that this word is mostly used in the broader asexual-&/or-aromantic-&/or-nonpartnerring community, so it might usually quantify a slightly more intimate friendship or mean being even less open to anything nonplatonic.

However, it seems to me that it can also mean that someone is most fulfilled while keeping their relationships clearly defined. We all need to communicate about expectations when we date. Many people strongly prefer dating with pre-decided perameters, but many others date to *discover what feels right*. :) Either can be fine if it works for you! ^-^

I understand that you aren't hitting on me, but i'm too *aqueerplatonic* for what you're proposing.

or

I'm asexual, aromantic, *and* *aqueerplatonic*, so just treat me like a friend, please!....

or

I am *stoked* about you, but you also seem like a very decisive & boundaried person who might even be *aqueerplatonic*.. Let's agree on boundaries about my friends before we date, so that you won't resent me! ^-^-^-^....

aqueerplatonic by ~ _ ~ September 14, 2020

queerplatonic relationship 

A relationship that exceeds what is usually considered as a platonic relationship, in which two or more people have a strong emotional bond, but do not experience romantic attraction. They may hold hands, cuddle, kiss, have sex, etc. or may not. The limits are defined by someone and their zucchini or zucchinis, and them alone. Many people on the asexual or aromantic spectrum are in queerplatonic relationships, also called QPRs.
Note: People do not have to be queer to be in a queerplatonic relationship, which is why it is also called a quasiplatonic relationship.

Person 1: Are you and Sandra dating? You seem really affectionate.
Person 2: Not really. I'm aromantic, and so is Sandra. We're in a queerplatonic relationship.

queerplatonic relationship by fish-prinx June 28, 2016

queerplatonic 

Adjective describing a relationship which is more intense and intimate than is considered common or normal for a "friendship", but doesn't fit the traditional sexual-romantic couple model. It is characterized by a strong bond, love, and emotional commitment, yet is not perceived by those involved as "romantic". The relationship may or may not have some elements or degree of sexuality/eroticism at various times, or none - it doesn't matter, because sexuality/sexual exclusivity is not what the relationship is organized around. It's defined by the intensity and significance of the emotional connection.

The people involved do not have to identify as "queer", it's a type of relationship experienced by and available to anybody regardless of their sexual orientation, romantic orientation, or (non-)monogamy. The people involved in a queerplatonic relationship may consider themselves partners, life-partners, a couple, a triad, or any other term that implies the relationship is meaningful, committed and intimate.

Quuerplatonic parters or QPs are sometimes referred to as "zucchini". As in, "he's my zucchini". This was originally a joke within the asexual/aromantic community, underscoring the lack of words in mainstream relationship discourse to signify meaningful relationships that do not follow the standard and expected sexual/romantic norms, and frustration with the erasure of other kinds of intimacy, which were perceived as equally valuable to the sexual/romantic model.

The reason that i was uncomfortable with the word 'girlfriend' was that i did not want a romantic relationship and the word seemed to imply one: I think what I may have wanted was a queerplatonic relationship.

I never understood why people were so opposed to affection of any kind towards people that are not dating, I think the world would be better if everybody could cuddle and it was not weird (kind of like how it used to be in Abe Lincoln's time when it was normal for men to sleep in the same bed together as a strictly platonic thing or like queerplatonic relationships maybe).

They told their friend about queerplatonic partnerships the same day they asked their friend if they could be queerplatonic partners, and they said yes.

queerplatonic by Trix1 August 31, 2013

queerplatonic partner 

The kind of bond that's stronger than "just friends," but isn't necessarily romantic either. It should be noted that this term isn't meant to undermine friendships nor is it "weaker" than romance. Popular among those who identify as aromantic and/or asexual.

Jake and Ethan are queerplatonic partners: the love they have for each other is stronger than friendship, but not quite romantic.

queerplatonic partner by jaybirb7 December 5, 2020

queerplatonic relationship 

A platonic relationship exceeding traditional ideas of friendship. Queerplatonic partners may love eachother the way others love their boyfriend or girlfriend but they do not experience sexual or romantic attraction to eachother.

Bro1: hey are Ted and Suzie going out? They're always hanging out together
Bro2: nah
Bro1: oh so they're just friends then?
Bro2: nah, they're more than that they said they're in a 'queerplatonic relationship' - they have serious friend-love,bro!

queerplatonic relationship by Rex Aceheart March 23, 2014

queerplatonic 

adjective; a word describing an extremely close emotional relationship that is beyond friendship, but not romantic in nature. It was coined by the aromantic and asexual communities to describe their relationships. (Note: Due to having a reclaimed slur in it, this term should not be used to describe allosexual or alloromantic people's relationships.)

Jenny and Jane are in a close queerplatonic relationship.

queerplatonic by The Asexually Ace November 29, 2015

Queerplatonic 

(Adjective) A word that is used instead of best friend by people who want to be seen as special. It is a relationship between two people so close that it almost seems romantic in nature, but is completely platonic. It can often be mistaken to be romantic, even by viewers of shows with this relationship between two characters.

Raymond: "How do you know Daniel? Is he a friend?"

Jessie: "I've known him my whole life. He's closer than a friend, he's my queerplatonic partner"

Raymond: "So...a best friend then?"

Jessie: "Yep"

Queerplatonic by NeverEnoughDragons June 7, 2018