A softdom is a dominant sexual partner that chooses to express their dominance through praise and care rather than degradation. A softdom, for instance, may be physically dominant and aggressive while being verbally loving, appreciative, and gentle.
I didn’t realize he was a softdom until he started choking me while he said good girl and told me how pretty I looked.
Someone who is tranquil, kind and physically gifted by nature. A softdom is a person who is loving and gentle with eyes only for their partner but a powerful force to be reckoned with when they need to be. Both in a fight and in the bedroom. Don't be fooled by the soft dom's kind hearted demeanor
He's a soft dom. He likes to take complete control in the sheets; to maximize the satisfaction of both his and her pleasures. Afterwards he kisses her forehead, tucks her in and reminds her why she's worth it.
German slang
Saftladen is a derogatory term used to describe a shop or any service business, really, that offers junk, a substandard choice of goods, is overpriced or just has plain bad service.